{"id":1094,"date":"2004-09-20T13:56:31","date_gmt":"2004-09-20T21:56:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.amptoons.com\/blog\/archives\/2004\/09\/20\/family-values-aint-all-bad\/"},"modified":"2004-09-20T13:56:31","modified_gmt":"2004-09-20T21:56:31","slug":"family-values-aint-all-bad","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=1094","title":{"rendered":"Family Values ain&#039;t all bad"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.familyscholars.org\/archives\/2004_09_19_archive.html#109562637916722896\">David Blankenhorn<\/a> writes:<\/p>\n<div class=\"snip\">\n&#8220;FAMIY VALUES&#8221;: I know I keep repeating this, but here&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cfimetrony.org\/events.html#comingSeptember\">another example <\/a>of how the term &#8220;family values&#8221; is almost always used today as a term of abuse, accusation, or irony, never anymore as a term aiming at sincere communication.<\/div>\n<p>(The event he links to, a debate between feminist Susan Brownmiller and anti-feminist Cathy Young entitled &#8220;Whose Family Values?: Secularism and Religion in Campaign 2004,&#8221; actually sounds pretty interesting. Unfortunately, it&#8217;s in NYC, and anyway the webpage writer neglected to include the date of the debate. Oy.)<\/p>\n<p>David has beaten this particular horse quite often &#8211; reading his blog, you&#8217;d swear that the only people using the term &#8220;family values&#8221; were sarcastic lefties. As <a href=\"http:\/\/www.familyscholars.org\/archives\/2002_12_22_archive.html#86479737\">he wrote last year<\/a>: &#8220;My thesis is that the term &#8216;family values&#8217; is used almost exclusively today as a term of ridicule and accusation.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I became curious enough to check how major American papers have used the term this week. And although there were, indeed, two or three sarcastic references, a strong majority of the uses of &#8220;family values&#8221; were either neutral or positive. Here&#8217;s a few examples &#8211; all from the past week.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;To me, it is not a political matter to send money to my family in Cuba. To me, it&#8217;s a matter of <b>family values<\/b>.&#8221; -Someone objecting to anti-money-transfer-to-Cuba regulations, Boston Globe, September 19.\n<li>&#8220;In Missouri, for example, voters ranked moral issues and <b>family values <\/b>fourth on their list of concerns, after terrorism, the economy and Iraq, but ahead of health care, jobs and taxes.&#8221; -Houstin Chronicle, September 19 (Did those voters mean it ironically? Did the pollster? It seems unlikely.)\n<li>&#8220;I am for <b>family values <\/b>and I am the victim of that.&#8221; -small-time political conservative candidate quoted in San Diego Union-Tribune, September 18.\n<li>&#8220;His stance on <b>family values <\/b>resonates with me.&#8221; -Jeanette Laugen, Bush supporter, quoted in Minneapolis Star Tribune, September 17.\n<li>&#8220;Jane Patterson has been named chairwoman of the Parents, Teachers, and Friends Organization&#8217;s Sprituality and <b>Family Values<\/b> Committee.&#8221; &#8211; From a school news round-up in the New Orleans Times-Picayune, September 16.\n<li>&#8220;Our company has always stood for <b>family values<\/b>. By having a major-league sports team, we can make a difference in a lot of lives. We stand for honesty, integrity and wholesome Christian values.&#8221; -Sports team owner Drayton McLane, quoted in The Houston Chronicle, September 15.\n<li>&#8220;&#8216;African-American churches will come up to the line much more than other churches,&#8217; said Mathew Staver, president of the Liberty Council, a group that says it defends religious freedom and traditional <b>family values<\/b>.&#8221; &#8211; St Petersburg Times, September 15. (Note that the Liberty Council says &#8220;Family Values&#8221; without a trace of irony multiple times <a href=\"http:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=%22family+values%22+site:familyscholars.org&#038;sourceid=opera&#038;num=0&#038;ie=utf-8&#038;oe=utf-8\">on their website<\/a>).\n<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m very proud of <i>Lost in Space<\/i>. It has good <b>family values<\/b>, it&#8217;s a cool adventure show, and I think it&#8217;s positive for people to watch today.&#8221; &#8211; Bill Mumy, former &#8220;Lost in Space&#8221; actor, quoted in The Houston Chronicle, September 14.<\/ul>\n<p>To me, it looks like David&#8217;s concerns are misplaced. &#8220;Family values&#8221; is used ironically and derisively fairly frequently, of course &#8211; and I think that&#8217;s a fair use, considering how often &#8220;family values&#8221; defenders have defended bigotry &#8211; but it&#8217;s used even more frequently in the old-fashioned, non-ironic way President Reagan intended, if newspaper usage is anything to judge by.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>David Blankenhorn writes: &#8220;FAMIY VALUES&#8221;: I know I keep repeating this, but here&#8217;s another example of how the term &#8220;family values&#8221; is almost always used today as a term of abuse, accusation, or irony, never anymore as a term aiming &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=1094\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[54],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1094","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-media-criticism"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1094","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1094"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1094\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1094"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1094"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1094"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}