{"id":1201,"date":"2004-10-27T06:31:03","date_gmt":"2004-10-27T14:31:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.amptoons.com\/blog\/archives\/2004\/10\/27\/two-good-posts-by-hugo\/"},"modified":"2004-10-27T06:31:03","modified_gmt":"2004-10-27T14:31:03","slug":"two-good-posts-by-hugo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=1201","title":{"rendered":"Two good posts by Hugo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Two posts by Hugo Schwyzer I found particularly interesting.<\/p>\n<p>First, a post on <a href=\"http:\/\/hugoboy.typepad.com\/hugo_schwyzer\/2004\/10\/abstinence_gay_.html\">abstinence and gay marriage<\/a>, in which Hugo laments that those folks who favor both generally go unheard. Good disucssion in the comments, too. (What I love about Hugo&#8217;s comments is that they&#8217;re practically the only place on the internet in which you can find both feminists and right-wing Christians but not a flame war.)<\/p>\n<p>The other recent Hugo post I wanted to point out is <a href=\"http:\/\/hugoboy.typepad.com\/hugo_schwyzer\/2004\/10\/feminism_food_a.html\">&#8220;Feminism, Food and Pleasure.&#8221; <\/a>Here&#8217;s a sample:<\/p>\n<div class=\"snip\">I am a great believer that one of the most important narratives in feminist history is that of women&#8217;s struggle to gain the right to pleasure. Broadly speaking, patriarchal culture tells women that their only source of permissable pleasure and happiness is centered on others: one can derive joy from feeding one&#8217;s child, but not from feeding oneself; one can derive joy from pleasing one&#8217;s husband in bed, but not from masturbation; one can derive joy from putting one&#8217;s husband through law school, but not for putting oneself through. And so on. This is what feminists call the &#8220;doctrine of contingent happiness&#8221; &#8212; the old fancy that virtuous women only derive real, enduring joy solely through sharing with others.<\/p>\n<p>As a Christian, I am a profound believer in the importance of self-sacrifice. There are times and places where self-denial is indeed virtuous, particularly when self-indulgence would cause obvious harm to others. But traditional culture makes the mistake of turning self-sacrifice into an idol. Self-denial is blessed when it draws us closer to God or when it benefits others &#8212; but it is not blessed in and of itself. Dieting for the sake of beauty is a form of destructive self-denial that follows an old pattern: &#8220;good women&#8221; repress and control their base, physical desires.<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two posts by Hugo Schwyzer I found particularly interesting. First, a post on abstinence and gay marriage, in which Hugo laments that those folks who favor both generally go unheard. Good disucssion in the comments, too. (What I love about &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=1201\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-feminism-sexism-etc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1201","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1201"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1201\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1201"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1201"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1201"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}