{"id":14649,"date":"2011-12-14T08:00:44","date_gmt":"2011-12-14T16:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=14649"},"modified":"2011-12-14T08:00:44","modified_gmt":"2011-12-14T16:00:44","slug":"it-was-never-easy-for-me-i-was-born-a-poor-black-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=14649","title":{"rendered":"It Was Never Easy for Me. I Was Born a Poor Black Child."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/moderateleft.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/TheseShoesAreDefective01.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"TheseShoesAreDefective01\" src=\"http:\/\/moderateleft.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/12\/TheseShoesAreDefective01-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" align=\"right\" hspace=\"4\" vspace=\"4\" \/><\/a>I don&#8217;t have time go give\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/quickerbettertech\/2011\/12\/12\/if-i-was-a-poor-black-kid\/\" target=\"_blank\">Gene Marks&#8217; asinine column<\/a>\u00a0the kicking around I&#8217;d like to. Suffice to say that if you&#8217;re white, you probably don&#8217;t want to write a column on what you&#8217;d do if you were a poor black child. It&#8217;s not going to end well.<\/p>\n<p>If you do want to read a nice, thorough, and well-written takedown, may I direct you to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.theroot.com\/views\/dear-forbes-writer-oh-no-you-didn-t\" target=\"_blank\">Elon James White&#8217;s piece<\/a>\u00a0over at The Root? Because it&#8217;s full of win, and touches on what I think is the most important thing to remember about Marks&#8217; post:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Now, in the midst of this overall attack on poor black children, Mr. Gene Marks comes along as an ignorant wolf wearing &#8220;I just want to help those poor Negroes!&#8221; clothing. Mr. Gene isn&#8217;t<em>\u00a0trying<\/em>\u00a0to be condescending or anything. He just wants to postulate the best way to fix poor Negro children, is all.<\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t him being an ass &#8212; this is simply what he might do as a middle-class, middle-aged white dude if all of a sudden he were attacked by Voldemort, a spell was cast and he was turned into a poor black child.<\/p>\n<p>He just wants to give some advice to the poor black children &#8230; in Forbes magazine.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s reasonable, right?<\/p>\n<p>We Negroes are familiar with this particular brand of help. The #WhiteLove\u2122 style of caring. Movies love to show how, when a white person with an open mind shows up and deals with poor blacks, their lives are<em>magically<\/em>\u00a0changed. As I read this piece, I sighed to myself and mumbled, &#8220;White liberals.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Yup. It&#8217;s &#8220;Nice White Lady&#8221; syndrome &#8212; the idea that if only those poor black kids understood the value of hard work and book learning, why, they&#8217;d all be rich! And who better to explain it to them than a white person &#8212; there being no African Americans who understand learning or work.<\/p>\n<p>Even when it&#8217;s delivered with the best of intentions, it&#8217;s obnoxious and offensive. When it&#8217;s delivered, as Marks did, with utter cluelessness (hey, poor kids, buy computers!), it goes up to the next level.<\/p>\n<p>White people? We can empathize with African Americans, but we can&#8217;t really understand what it&#8217;s like to be black in America, because we aren&#8217;t. As always, we need to talk less and listen more. Which is why I strongly recommend you read all of White&#8217;s article.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t have time go give\u00a0Gene Marks&#8217; asinine column\u00a0the kicking around I&#8217;d like to. Suffice to say that if you&#8217;re white, you probably don&#8217;t want to write a column on what you&#8217;d do if you were a poor black child. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=14649\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[93],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14649","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-race-racism-and-related-issues"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14649","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14649"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14649\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14650,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14649\/revisions\/14650"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}