{"id":3481,"date":"2007-06-25T20:39:29","date_gmt":"2007-06-26T03:59:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.amptoons.com\/blog\/archives\/2007\/06\/25\/its-about-interracial-sex-folks\/"},"modified":"2007-06-25T20:39:29","modified_gmt":"2007-06-26T03:59:17","slug":"its-about-interracial-sex-folks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=3481","title":{"rendered":"It&#039;s About Interracial Sex Folks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ok,\u00a0I&#8217;d be remiss\u00a0if I didn&#8217;t say something about the latest crime to become a media circus.\u00a0 I&#8217;m sure by now most of you have heard about <a href=\"http:\/\/news.yahoo.com\/s\/ap\/20070625\/ap_on_re_us\/pregnant_woman_dead;_ylt=AlV61lsLVVnSU0kzRb_tkNUDW7oF\">the\u00a0murder of Jessie Davis<\/a>, who was almost\u00a09 months pregnant and was likely killed in front of her two year old child by the child&#8217;s father.\u00a0 Since Davis and Cutts were a\u00a0black\/white couple and I am someone\u00a0who\u00a0studies black\/white interracial relationships and who is in a black\/white interracial relationship, I know many people are wondering what I think about this case.\u00a0 I&#8217;m not here to offer any opinions on the particulars of the case ((I also want to say that my heart goes out to the\u00a0family of Jessie Davis and her child.\u00a0 I hope they are able to get justice in this case.)) , but I do want to talk about the media coverage of the case.<\/p>\n<p>I went around to a few blogs, and I visited AOL Blackvoices and a couple white supremacist message boards to see what they were saying, and quite frankly it was horrible.\u00a0 Many people were saying that the victim deserved it; that she was &#8220;white trash;&#8221; that her child was ugly; and that she was a sleazy, homewrecking whore.\u00a0\u00a0Not surprisingly,\u00a0the accused murderer, who is the poster boy for anti-black stereotypes, was also being trashed as\u00a0a violent womanizer who\u00a0lusted\u00a0after white women.\u00a0 I can&#8217;t tell you how many racist and misogynistic comments I read;\u00a0and not surprisingly the white supremacists were giddy over this case. ((I have a policy of not linking to organized white supremacist sites, but you can check out the big ones to see what they are saying.))\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/terrencesays.blogspot.com\/2007\/06\/bobby-cutts-jr-vs-christopher-vaughn.html#links\">Terrence Says<\/a> has a reasonable post, which anonymous bigots tried to take over in the comment thread, and in his post, Terrence engages with the question that many folks are thinking&#8211;is the media circus surrounding this case about race? Terrence cites a recent case of a white man who killed his white\u00a0wife and three children:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Today, like Bobby Cutts, Jr. who was arrested in Ohio, Christopher Vaughn was also arrested. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.stltoday.com\/stltoday\/news\/stories.nsf\/stcharles\/story\/991B62BA7C53C90586257303005CB398?OpenDocument\"><font color=\"#716e6c\">Christopher Vaughn was arrested two hours prior to the funeral of his family in St. Charles County, Missouri<\/font><\/a> (suburban St. Louis) where the family originated; yet, so far, there has not been a mention of Vaughn&#8217;s arrest that I have been able to observe on the weekend news shows.<\/p>\n<p>As sad and tragic as the Jessie Davis story is, I can&#8217;t help but wonder if this story had involved a missing pregnant black or Latina woman if it would have the same media traction.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Well several of the anonymous commenters went crazy, saying that the case received so much attention because Davis was pregnant, because Cutts was a cop, because the child was left in the house alone, and everything but race.\u00a0 I certainly agree that all of those things make the story more sensational, but I really can&#8217;t fathom that it is much more sensational than the Vaugh family case mentioned above.\u00a0 However, I find myself having a slight disagreement with Terrence.\u00a0 I agree that white women victims get much more attention than Black, Asian, Latino, and American Indian women, and I agree that race is a big factor in the media attention the case has gotten, but I would be more specific than Terrence.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s about interracial sex.\u00a0 Interracial crimes make big sensational news stories, but crimes that involve interracial sexuality arouse the deepest passions of American bigotry.\u00a0 The OJ Simpson case, the Duke Rape, the Kobe Bryant rape case, and now this one&#8211;they all have tremendous sexual overtones.\u00a0 For a long time, I was surprised at how much attention the Duke case received, because I was focused on the fact that the accuser in the case was black, but I missed the mark.\u00a0 It&#8217;s more than the races of the people involved; if the crime is perceived as involving interracial sex, something snaps in people, suddenly they perk up.<\/p>\n<p>The truth of the matter is that the US is a culture obsessed with interracial sex, but nobody will say this in polite company.\u00a0 During the slave era and the Jim Crow era, white people spoke with repulsion and disgust at interracial sex even though many white men were routinely engaging in sexual encounters with black women.\u00a0In the colorblind era, people are still obsessed with interracial sex.\u00a0 However, they do not <strong>publicly<\/strong> say, &#8220;Wow, interracial sex is: bizarre, disgusting, exciting, adventurous, morally repugnant,&#8221; and so on.\u00a0 That&#8217;s part of the reason nobody in the mainstream polite media is going to openly\u00a0say&#8211;&#8220;Damn that negro had two white baby mama&#8217;s.\u00a0 He must have really been packing some heat below the belt.\u00a0 Why else would those white women be interested in him?&#8221;\u00a0 ((I don&#8217;t know if his wife is white or not, so I can&#8217;t comment on the third &#8220;baby mama.&#8221;))\u00a0 Nobody is going to say, &#8220;Those white women are white trash, whores for sleeping with this black guy.\u00a0\u00a0They probably only did it for his big dick.&#8221;\u00a0 Nobody is going to say, &#8220;Why can&#8217;t these black men just take care of their kids and stopping hopping from bed to bed.\u00a0 Only a white women with no self esteem will get with a guy like that.&#8221;\u00a0 They are not saying these dispargaing comments\u00a0publicly, but when they get home to their families and friends, they are saying it.\u00a0 When they go on line to search for interracial porn, they are thinking it.\u00a0 When they can leave anonymous comments on blogs, they are expressing it.<\/p>\n<p>I think my traffic at this site is evidence for the American obsession with\u00a0race and\u00a0sex.\u00a0 Within the last week here are a select few searches I have received:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>black men impregnating white women stories<\/li>\n<li>savages on blondes<\/li>\n<li>Biracial family pictures black and white<\/li>\n<li>BLACK ATHLETE MARRYING WHITE WOMEN<\/li>\n<li>Black men breeding white girls<\/li>\n<li>black negro slave woman naked pictures<\/li>\n<li>black women with white men in adult movies<\/li>\n<li>differences between white and black women&#8217;s breasts<\/li>\n<li>blacks in bed sexing<\/li>\n<li>george lucas in love black women<\/li>\n<li>how do you feel about interracial relationship<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And this was a really slow week, I&#8217;ve gotten at least 100 searches over the past few months for &#8220;savages on blondes,&#8221; which was a popular racist pornographic website featuring black men who act like &#8220;savages&#8221; who want to have sex with white women.\u00a0 I mentioned that site exactly one time on this blog, and I still get people looking for it.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For some reason, people think interracial sex is exotic and daring, particularly when it involves Black men and white women and\u00a0Asian women and white men.\u00a0 Numerous people, who clearly have no random sample to draw from believe that race is correlated with penis size.\u00a0 They believe\u00a0race is correlated with a person&#8217;s level of sexual desire.\u00a0 They believe people who engage in interracial sex are deviant, rebellious, daring, gross, odd, oversexed, and ugly. But,\u00a0most of them will not admit it publicly.\u00a0 Instead they go home and post horrible messages\u00a0discussion boards. (Probably while masturbating to interracial porn.)\u00a0 They try their best to hide their discomfort, but most interracial couples can\u00a0see how the stares\u00a0they get in public often belie the facade of tolerance.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to interracial sexuality, the US is still not ready to come to grips with our racism, and the discomfort with\u00a0the intersection of race and sexuality\u00a0fuels the public obession with many interracial crimes.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>NOTE TO READERS: I know this thread is going to be an ultra-sensitive subject, and white supremacist trolls will likely be coming out of the woodwork, so I am limiting this thread to anti-racists and racial abolitionists only.\u00a0 Moreover, this is not a thread to debate the merits of any of the cases mentioned in the text, so let&#8217;s focus on the larger issues.\u00a0\u00a0Finally, anyone who leaves bigoted white supremacist comments will be banned immediately.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Amending The Note To Readers to include feminist posters as well.\u00a0 So the thread is opened to anti-racists (or racial abolitionists) and feminists only.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ok,\u00a0I&#8217;d be remiss\u00a0if I didn&#8217;t say something about the latest crime to become a media circus.\u00a0 I&#8217;m sure by now most of you have heard about the\u00a0murder of Jessie Davis, who was almost\u00a09 months pregnant and was likely killed in &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/?p=3481\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[123,116,31,54,93,96],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3481","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-duke-rape-case","category-families-structures-divorce-etc","category-feminism-sexism-etc","category-media-criticism","category-race-racism-and-related-issues","category-rape-intimate-violence-related-issues"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3481","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3481"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3481\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3481"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3481"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amptoons.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3481"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}