Yes, Fat Lady, You Too Can Be Objectified: Examining the Objectification of Fat Women Through the Lenses of Feminism and Fat Rights

[Bumped by Amp because I think this is a really good post, but it appeared over the weekend when we have fewer readers.]

On October 3 (oy, I take a long time to write posts), Shakespeare’s Sister wrote a post about an offensive ad for playtex, which uses the bodies of fat women and women of color to create an impression of being woman-friendly while in fact marketing what Melissa MacEwan calls “the new misogyny.”

Here, take a gander at the ad itself:

Here’s an excerpted transcript of the salient bit (taken from Melissa):

“What do I call them?”

“Boobs, breasts, knockers…”

“Are you asking me if I have a nickname for them?”

“It’s a guy thing to name parts of your body!”

“Betty and Jane.”

“Titties! Boobies!”

…

“I’ve been asked to shake the moneymakers on the subway a few times.”

“Back up for a second,” writes Melissa. “I’ve been asked to shake the moneymakers on the subway a few times?! Giggle giggle ha ha. And that’s exactly how smoothly and coolly the new misogyny can minimize the seriousness of sexual harassment.”

In this ad, Playtex is expecting fat women and women of color to be so awed by their inclusion that they don’t notice the misogyny inherent in the way that they are included. Melissa’s not falling for it. She writes:

Of course I want to see more images of fat women and women of color (and disabled women and dwarf women and birthmarked women and tattooed women and women of every shape, size, color, age, and circumstance). But I’ll be damned if I want their presence used as a diversionary tactic while my skull is pounded with messages like “Breasts are toys!” and “Sexual harassment is flattering!” by companies who then expect me to genuflect in desperate gratitude because this something is ostensibly better than the nothing of the status quo.

This reminds me of another item that recently showed up in the feminist blogosphere, a photograph of recording artist Beth Ditto posing naked for the cover of a magazine. The Feministe article on this photograph seemed relatively uncritical, although they noted some assinine questions that a reporter, trying to pit one woman against another, asked Beth Ditto about Kate Moss. Twisty of I Blame the Patriarchy, on the other hand, was more critical. She laughs at the idea that sexy pictures of fat women are transgressive.

1. Porn isn’t transgressive; it’s de rigueur. No one in Western culture has drawn a porn-free breath in decades. This means it’s the norm.

2. Pictures of naked women empower nobody but the men who pimp’em out and the voyeurs who consume’em. A woman may elect to reap the benefits of her capitulation to her oppressor, and she can even call it “empowerment” when she does it, but that doesn’t mean she’s not full of shit, and it certainly doesn’t mean that it’s doing any other women the least bit of good.

3. Dude Nation is already well aware that fat women exist. And I guaran-fucking-tee that they’ll continue to hate fat women just as much as they hate skinny ones, no matter which pop star shows up weighing how much on what magazine cover.

Girls, the dominant pornsick culture is crapping on you. Get hip to this: the ability to titillate men is not a high moral purpose. Being sexually manipulative is not a high moral purpose. Posing naked on the cover of NME isn’t empowering, its emposeuring.

I agree with both Twisty and Melissa on this. We as feminists should be deeply skeptical of a culture that offers absolution to fat women by granting them a shadow of the objectification which plagues skinny women.

Fat women and skinny women are played agaisnt each other abominably in this debate. It’s a hideous catch 22, which I realized several months ago when chatting with a gorgeous friend of mine who is routinely trailed by cars when she walks down the street, misogynists leaning out the window to hoot at her body and offer propositions. When she told me this, half my brain went, “Assholes.” The other half went, “That never happens to me and this is a sign of my failure and inferiority.”

Either way, women lose. We lose when we’re harrassed. We lose when we’re not harrassed. We’re objects of sex, or we’re objects of disgust. Either way, our sexuality is framed around the imagined desires of a “default” male. Allowing fat women to be sexually objectified is far from ideal — it is not a radical movement that will lead toward women’s equality.

But there’s another analysis I want to bring into this, and that’s a fat rights analysis. As a fat woman, I can say that the damage done to my psyche through years of being told I’m revolting is really, really bad. In a fatphobic society, a society that’s more afraid of women’s fat than men’s, I, as a fat woman, suffer more than a thin woman who is otherwise situated like I am.

I share most of the disadvantages that thin women have in this society. Like thin women, I still need to fear for my safety late at night. I am still a potential target of hate and violence. Simultaneously, I am culturally denied the ability to view myself in one of the primary (and problematic, and limiting) roles of acceptable, western-constructed female sexuality and identity.

Twisty suggests that access to sexual objectification for fat women and women of color is no benefit at all, but only an admission into a club full of misogyny and problems. This is true, on one level, but I think that it’s important to look at the ways in which the axis of being fat affects women’s lives.

One thing that’s missing from Twisty’s analysis (or perhaps is implied in point 3, but not expanded on as much as I’d like) is that fat women are *already* objectified. We are objectified as objects of revulsion or disinterest. We are taught to view ourselves as repellant. Others are taught to view us this way, too.

Being treated like an object for collection, an object for consumption — something beautiful and desirable — sucks, because it involves being treated like an object. However, being treated like a treasured object is still better than being treated like an object to be thrown away.

Melissa’s position is closer to mine, and I think her emphasis is right on. We shouldn’t allow the fat woman’s or brown woman’s body to distract us from seeing how despicable a naturalization of sexual harrassment is. Still, if fat women and brown women growingly have access to being able to move out of the molds in which patriarchy has placed them, that will make our lives more liveable in some (limited) ways, even if that change is expressed in reprehensible and misogynist ways.

Ideally, everyone would be treated as fully human. However, while fat women are more oppressed than thin women, changes which alter our status will benefit us — even while they play into the misogyny that oppresses all women, fat and thin.