Category Archives: Families structures, divorce, etc

But Women Do It, Too

Bean quotes from this Jack Straton essay about child custody, and I can’t resist reproducing the same quote here: In the process, I am going to talk today about the effects of male power and control over children, not about … Continue reading

Posted in Anti-feminists and their pals, Families structures, divorce, etc, Rape, intimate violence, & related issues | 43 Comments

Donor conception – should it be legal for straight couples only?

And yet more from that “Family Scholars” thread: Marty, attempting to explain why he feels compassion for straight, married, infertile couples who want children – but not same-sex couples or single women – writes: A married man and a married … Continue reading

Posted in Families structures, divorce, etc, Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans and Queer issues | 51 Comments

Government Bans Aren't a Legitimate Way of Avoiding Birth Defects

During that same Family Scholars discussion of D.C. (donor contraception), “Johnny Moral” wrote: But I’m up for banning it anyway. It is 10 times more likely to cause birth defects. Unless Johnny is saying that disabled people have so much … Continue reading

Posted in Abortion & reproductive rights, Disabled Rights & Issues, Families structures, divorce, etc | 67 Comments

Is Adoption Voluntary?

I have several more comments relating to the Family Scholars thread I linked to on Monday. In the comments, “L.L.,” wanting to distinguish between D.C. (donor conception) and adoption, wrote: …the natural parents of adopted children don’t impose adoption on … Continue reading

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The Mother Drive-By

Getupgrrl at Chez Miscarriage has been doing an amazing series of posts on what she terms “mother drive-bys.” It began with this post, a totally excellent, kick-ass feminist critique of Judith Warner’s are-we-mothering-too-much book Perfect Madness. That post generated a … Continue reading

Posted in Breastfeeding & Lactivism, Families structures, divorce, etc | 15 Comments

Should anonymous egg and sperm donation be legal?

In a comment on Family Scholars Blog, Narelle (who, I gather, was never given the opportunity to know who her biological father is) writes: I am not saying that DC [Donor Conception] should be banned, but if it is to … Continue reading

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Low blue-state teen pregnancy and divorce rates are not red herrings!

Tom at Family Scholars Blog links approvingly to this New Republic piece by Jeffrey Friedman: We’ve heard a lot recently about how red-state residents favor smaller government while benefiting disproportionately from federal largesse; and how they value the sanctity of … Continue reading

Posted in Families structures, divorce, etc, Same-Sex Marriage | 33 Comments

I wuz wrong: Kansas and TANF

In an earlier post, I complained that the Kansas Healthy Marriage Institute seemed unduly interested in diverting TANF money away from proven anti-poverty programs and towards experimental marriage initiatives. As Sara Butler at the Family Scholars Blog points out, I … Continue reading

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A bit more on Scott Coltrane

In a previous post, I criticized Tom’s comments about sociologist Scott Coltrane. Tom explains that his comment was tongue-in-cheek. So I misinterpreted Tom’s statement; sorry about that, Tom. Tom also refered to an article by Scott Coltrane, which he said … Continue reading

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Links

Guess the Dictator or Sit-Com Character. I haven’t come up with one it can’t guess. It’s darn good at guessing Buffy characters, too. The Council on Contemporary Families argues that marriage is not a cure-all for poverty. They would rather … Continue reading

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