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The allusion to Charlotte's Web would have seemed completely random last week. Or maybe not completely random, but maybe just…
I don't doubt it, @Watcher, but I limit myself to talking about what I know, which, as a Brit, is…
Thanks for enlightening us about your situation, Ron. @Daran: It's the same in France, South Africa, Sweden, Australia... and so…
My situation is a little different. I am a network engineer. My company is a IT service provider; we will…
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Category Archives: BDSM issues
Clarisse Thorn’s new sci-fi story “Victory”
Occasional “Alas” guest-poster Clarisse Thorn has written a science fiction short story, “Victory,” about a mayor who enjoyment of BDSM gets outed when her movie-star ex-husband releases a sex tape. The story includes depictions of consensual BDSM sex, and separately, … Continue reading
Posted in BDSM issues
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Two Quick Links
School is eating my brain and I’m going to China in a week, so I’ve not been Mr. Blogger-pants of late. I did want to post two links I’ve read lately, though. I Don’t Respect You, by Emily Nagoski – … Continue reading
All the Happy, Kinky People
Here’s my stab at creating a different kind of feminist BDSM discussion. Anyone want to post their happy BDSM stories? Actually, can we broaden that to happy kink stories? Happy stories of the joys of non-mainstream sexuality — asexuals so … Continue reading
Posted in BDSM issues, Gender and the Body
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BDSM: Examine your desires
For approximately a jillion weeks now, I’ve been working on a post about why I believe BDSM can be (and is for me) feminist. For some reason, work has been slow on it . . . I’ve got so many … Continue reading
Posted in BDSM issues
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I don't blame them for being furious. But that it came up in my cartoon is just a coincidence. :-)