“How To Make A Man Out Of Tin Foil!” is now online at Bitch Magazine!

My short story “How To Make A Man Out of Tin Foil” is online! This angsty story about boyhood and masculinity at a Jewish summer camp is now available on Bitch Magazine’s website.

I did this story for the upcoming feminist comics anthology The Big Feminist BUT, an anthology of feminist comics by both women and men. The list of contributors is, frankly, AMAZING — Hope Larson! Jeffrey Brown! Sarah Oleksyk! Jen Wang! Shaenon Garrity! Tom Neely! — and I can’t wait to read my copy. If you’re interested, please kick in a few bucks to the Big Feminist BUT’s kickstarter campaign.

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Pop Culture Periscope: New Food Shows

cartoon about food and cooking showsFor my birthday a couple months ago, I went to a farm-to-table restaurant that served a dish called “Pulled pig face.” More recently, I found myself reading an article touting the sustainable virtues of hunting, and the hunter’s philosophy of respecting the animal. I support the humane treatment of farm animals and am as much of a fan of The Omnivore’s Dilemma as anyone, but there is some comedic disconnect in how we talk about caring for the animals we find so delicious — i.e., if you really, really respect your dog, you probably won’t eat its face. Just saying.

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Link Farm and Open Thread: Cynical Sinister Spinster Edition

This is an open thread. Post what you want, when you want it, and don’t let anyone tell you boo, and if they do say boo you tell them from me that I think they’re a big jerkface doodoohead bobucusfussbuss, and I totally mean that, but not in a mean way, because everyone knows I love everyone. Also, self-linking: So cool penguins do it.

  1. Barack Obama, Pro-Life Hero
  2. Abstract: Preventing Unintended Pregnancies by Providing No-Cost Contraceptives “Abortion rates in the CHOICE cohort were less than half the regional and national rates…”
  3. Ashlyn Blocker, the Girl Who Feels No Pain
  4. So on a budget bus from Seattle to Portland, I was talking to the woman sitting next to me, and it turns out that she’s in a band that performs Klezmer in Yiddish! And they sound great. They’re called Yiddish Republik.
  5. Anti-Star Trek: A Theory of Posterity :: Peter Frase
  6. Does Sony Pictures own your art portfolio?
  7. The Heart of Thomas (aka Thomas no Shinzō) by Moto Hagio – a set on Flickr. What gorgeous layouts! I hope the story is good.
  8. Tarantula by Mark Kalesniko – an enjoyable short comic book. I think this took me about ten minutes to read, so longer than a strip, but shorter than a graphic novel.
  9. Blade Realities. Just because you’ve stabbed your opponent through the heart doesn’t mean they’re done swinging their sword at you.
  10. Raymond Chandler’s Private Dick – Ta-Nehisi Coates Very interesting blog post on male sexuality, misogyny, and expectations of men being invulnerable.
  11. Related: Fear of Vulnerability and Geek Misogyny
  12. I’m told this is a Brazilian version of “Candid Camera.” In this piece, the show uses a creepy little girl to try and scare people to death.
  13. Children, Parents and Mass Incarceration
  14. Ladies: If You Want to Get Married, Get Back in the Kitchen. Good essay by our old friend Jeff Fecke.
  15. The Big Feminist BUT: Corinne Mucha’s “Spinster” A fun, well-done essay-comic on spinsterhood. This will appear in “Big Feminist But,” a feminist comics anthology that will feature a nine-page short story by me. Kickstarter here. If you like feminism and comics, please consider tossing in a few bucks.
  16. Beliefs have consequences! | closetpuritan
  17. From obese to chubby: How I lost the weight, and why you shouldn’t admire me for it. – Slate Magazine I really liked this piece about losing weight (which the author did mostly through surgery). She also has a blog, called Do fat people have souls?
  18. The Fat Trap. Really top-notch essay on why it’s incredibly difficult for most fat people to stop being fat. Edited to add: I think that some of the reporting on the studies that have been done is “top-notch.” However, as Meerkat points out in the comments, the author does have some clearly anti-fat attitudes that many “Alas” readers, me included, won’t agree with.
  19. Whitewashing Jefferson
  20. Slavery Is A Love Song – Ta-Nehisi Coates
  21. The Myth Of Jefferson As ‘A Man Of His Times’ – Ta-Nehisi Coates
  22. The Volokh Conspiracy » Why Don’t People Get It About Jefferson and Slavery? This is the pro-Jefferson essay that most of these other Jefferson links are refuting.
  23. The Dark Side of Thomas Jefferson | Smithsonian Magazine
  24. America Isn’t as Decadent as Social Conservatives Think It Is – Conor Friedersdorf
  25. Shortpacked! by David Willis – False Equivalence. The “mainstream comics idealize male bodies too” argument always annoys me as a cartoonist, because it seems to imply that the speaker – who is always a male comic book fan – is not able to understand even obvious, over the top subtext in comic book art.
  26. Where Masturbation and Homosexuality Do Not Exist.
  27. How the world’s wealth is distributed – the top two percent own half
  28. Could competition make Obamacare more expensive?
  29. Raising Medicare’s age: Saves feds $5.7 billion, costs you $11.4 billion
  30. No one draws cartoons of impossibly complicated, vaguely 1970s looking machinery better than Mattiasa.

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The Problem with Dog-Whistle Politics and Relying on Technical Deniability

We’ve discussed this before here many times, but John Holbo at Crooked Timber has a post up that’s so astoundingly good I wanted to draw everyone’s attention to it.

The post is, “Political Dog-whistles Don’t Have An Off-Switch For The Dog-whistle Part,” and it’s about why the Republican presidential candidate received ~0% of the African-American vote in the last election. It’s also about why Republicans find it so damn unfair to be accused of racism when they’re proposing [more draconian enforcement of immigration laws|cutting AFDC|that Sonya Sotomayor is incompetent|that Susan Rice is incompetent|that Barack Obama is incompetent|that Barack Obama is from Kenya|that Barack Obama is the ‘food stamp’ president|that the Civil Rights Act shouldn’t have been passed|that Affirmative Action is bad|making it harder for members of minority groups to vote|how awesome The Bell Curve was|etc] for perfectly good ideological reasons that have nothing to do with race. It’s also about what the Republican Party might need to do if they want to change any of that.

Let’s grant, for the sake of argument, that Rice’s handling of Benghazi was plausibly incompetent (I don’t buy it, but suppose.) Problem is: if you have a history of saying abstract things, signaling something else, you have painted yourself into a rhetorical corner when it comes to saying abstractly negative things about Susan Rice and not having black people suspect you are really saying something else. It’s also obvious why Colin Powell, Condoleezza Rice, etc. do not remove the suspicion that you are trying to paper over your race problem without addressing it.

So this is the problem, essentially. Republicans have a long history of using coded racial language to appeal to white racists. ((Don’t blame me for saying this, blame Lee Atwater. )) I think that’s a problem, of course, and I think that the disparate impact that many of their preferred policies have on racial minorities is a problem, but I think that there’s a third problem: the ongoing refusal of Republicans to openly discuss any of this.

What happens, time and again, is that the discussions about the racism and deliberate appeals to racists that the Republican Party has engaged in end up getting bogged down in technical deniability.

That is: “Sure, there are ‘the birthers,’ but they’re not in the mainstream of the party.” And, “Sure, Mitt Romney, our most recent presidential candidate, made birther references, but they were just JOKES! Loosen up!” And, “When Newt called Obama the Food Stamp President, there was nothing racial about that.” And, “It’s technically possible to oppose the civil rights act and all legislation designed to remedy discrimination for ideological reasons without bringing racism into it at all.”

After a while, the process of defending your party against claims of racism (by dismissing and minimizing the concerns of racial minorities and relying on technicalities) does as much or more damage to your party’s image as the original racism itself.

And that’s because this deniability isn’t plausible deniability (unless you’re Republican). It’s technical deniability. It’s true that it’s technically possible to oppose the Civil Rights Act for non-racist reasons. It’s true that it’s technically possible to do all of this stuff for non-racist reasons. But, frankly, after witnessing decades of the Republican Party exploiting racial tensions to win elections, it’s just not plausible that that’s what’s going on … and the kind of smirking, winking “You can’t call this racist unless there’s no other possible explanation” wins no prizes.

And hey, as Holbo points out, maybe you’re not racist! Maybe you are saying and doing these things that have been historically coded racist for purely ideological reasons! Here’s the problem:

But even if whites at some point, in their sincerest hearts of hearts, want ‘we want to cut this’ to not serve any longer as an in-group/out-group marker (to use the nicest possible term for it) because 1) they have sincerely become less racist and 2) it hurts them at the ballot box, it’s totally unreasonable to expect that out-group members will stop hearing this as dog-whistle ethnocentric signaling, at precisely the convenient moment when it no longer serves the interests of white folks to have it be heard that way. The dog-whistle part doesn’t have an off-switch, so if ‘we want to cut this’ is a dog-whistle, you can’t proposing cutting without dog-whistling.

John Holbo’s point, and mine, is that unless the Republican Party enjoys falling off the demographic cliff, they’ll need to openly address their racism, purge it, and make crystal-fucking-clear that it’s been purged. Frankly, I don’t think they’ll be able to do it, at least not very soon.

I hope I’m wrong.

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How Immigration Laws Break Up Tens Of Thousands Of Families

Colorlines reports on the surprising court victory of undocumented immigrant and father Filipe Montes:

Felipe Montes, an undocumented immigrant from Mexico, moved to Sparta, N.C., in 2003 to work on Christmas tree farms. He married a local woman, Marie Montes, and they had two children. But in late 2010, Montes was deported from his home after racking up a series of fines for traffic violations, because as an undocumented immigrant he’s barred from obtaining a driver’s license. He left behind his two kids, Isaiah and Adrian, then 1 and 3, and his wife, who was pregnant at the time.

Just two months after he was detained, county child welfare officials removed the two toddlers and the newborn baby, Angel, from Marie Montes. The child welfare department said she could not care safely for the kids; she’s previously lost custody of four other children and has long struggled with drug use and mental health problems.

The children were quickly placed in foster care with couples who hoped to adopt them, and the Alleghany County Department of Social Services advocated Montes’s parental rights be terminated. Though Montes asked county child welfare officials to send his sons to him in Tamaulipas, Mexico, the agency refused, arguing that his home lacked running drinking water and was otherwise insufficient for young kids. […]

The Montes family’s saga has drawn such close scrutiny not because it is extraordinary, but because it is increasingly normal. […] A Colorlines.com investigation released a year ago estimated that there were least 5,000 kids in foster care whose parents were detained or deported. Existing government data first secured by Colorlines.com last year shows that in the six-month period between January and June 2011, the federal government deported 46,000 parents of U.S. citizen kids.

In any weighing of the pros and cons of our current immigration law, the “con” of breaking up families should weigh heavily against the status quo.

The Montes family had severe problems, but the laws only made those problems worse. Maybe the mother wouldn’t have been able to be a responsible parent even with her husband in country helping her. Maybe these kids would have seen their parents split up in any case, and maybe being in a separate household from their mother is the best thing for them. But I think it would have been better if the parents had been allowed to try to make it work.

These kids – who are, let’s not forget, American citizens – are going to be raised in what sounds like conditions of extreme poverty, in a country in which far fewer children get the opportunity to attend college. It sounds like they’ll have a loving extended family, and that counts for a lot – but is this really the best the US government could have done for these citizens? It’s not the choice Mr. Montes would have made for them – it’s clear he’d prefer to remain, and raise his kids, in the USA.

Separately, I thought this point about legal double-standards was interesting:

Child welfare law circulates between two legal standards. The first, called the fitness standard, asks whether a parent is able to take care of their kids and can provide a safe home. The second asks, what’s in the best interest of the children? Experts generally agree that courts can’t consider the second question until the first has been answered. In other words, as long as a mom or dad can care for their kid and has not harmed them, the family stays together.

But as I’ve reported previously, in a growing number of cases around the country that involve undocumented and deported parents, this legal order has been reversed, and child welfare departments, children’s advocates and courts have applied the best-interest standard without establishing a parent is unfit.

Thoughts?

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Quote: Being Told You’re Innately Defective Is A Form Of Abuse

“People who are told repeatedly that they are innately defective are being abused and traumatized. The cost of conversion therapy to gay men and lesbians may be nothing less than emotional devastation. They may spend years recovering from the trauma inflicted upon them.”

-Laura Booker, LCSW

The context is a lawsuit against a Jewish agency that claims to cure gayness, but I think the quote is applicable widely, to all sorts of marginalized people. For example, I don’t think it’s possible to understand the scope of the harm anti-fat ideology does to fat people without considering the issues brought up by this quote.

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Clarisse Thorn’s new sci-fi story “Victory”

Occasional “Alas” guest-poster Clarisse Thorn has written a science fiction short story, “Victory,” about a mayor who enjoyment of BDSM gets outed when her movie-star ex-husband releases a sex tape. The story includes depictions of consensual BDSM sex, and separately, of rape. It also makes an explicit parallel between lgbt rights and BDSM rights that’s certainly given me food for thought.

Spoilers below!

The solidly-built man behind the overlarge desk nodded. “What can I do for you, Mayor?”

Serena gave it to him straight — it’s what I’m good at. “I’d like your endorsement.” Nick stroked one finger down a blue slider, tapped twice. She suspected he was firming her voice; the suspicion was confirmed as her own words sounded through her earbuds, half a second later.

“Ah. I thought you might call.” Riley steepled his fingers — haven’t seen that gesture before, she thought. Practicing our fatherly image, are we, Governor? “Let me be honest. You’ve got great perspective and it’s been good to have your support opposing this universal surveillance nonsense — the so-called ‘Neighborhood Safety Act.’ But you must be aware that I’ve been promoting myself as a family man.”

“Exactly. That’s why you can help me so well against Barnhart.”

He looked at her over his glasses. “I’m up for re-election myself.”

“Governor Riley.” Leaning forward, she discreetly used her left arm to haul her bad arm upon the desk; elbows bent, she interlaced her fingers demurely. “I know you never campaigned for queer liberation.” Nick’s hands flickered in the sea-colored glow of his screens. “I can see why sexual freedom wouldn’t seem pressing. You and your husband are established. Respected.” Her target was watching warily, but he hadn’t interrupted. “So maybe queer history isn’t a big deal for you. But the S&M Old Guard was at Stonewall, last century.”

The equivalence drawn between BDSM rights and LGBT rights seems strained. Are people being arrested for practicing BDSM, the way the patrons of bars like Stonewall were arrested merely for being gay or lesbian? Are S&M practitioners denied the right to marry, or singled out for bashing or murder? If I were the governor in the above scene, I might find a (apparently) heterosexual mayor trying to pull that equivalence to be presumptuous rather than persuasive.

But at the same time, I don’t believe the equivalence argument should be relevant. Prejudice against people who like BDSM (I’m not sure what the right term to use is, but I’d welcome being told) doesn’t have to be identical to any other bigotry in order to be a valid issue. That the prejudice exists, and is unfair, and hurts people, is enough.

Ignoring political pressures (as the folks in Clarisse’s story seem to do, by and large), the Governor should decide to support the Mayor because he thinks that prejudice against someone for liking BDSM is wrong, not because he’s gay.

I also found it funny that – even though an anti-privacy law called “The Neighborhood Safety Act” is a looming menace throughout Victory – the Mayor protagonist seems not at all bothered by the thought of millions of constituents watching a video of her having sex – it’s just her enjoyment of S/M being outed that bothers her (she even arranges to have a different sex tape, showing herself receiving oral sex, released).

Anyway, feel free to used this thread to discuss any issues raised by Clarisse’s story.

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Shoppers Go Wild For Walmart Strike

Walmart strike cartoonI guess I could have had the shopper trampling a bunch of Walmart managers to help the cashier, but given the news about the Walmart security officer who apparently killed a shoplifter with a chokehold, I didn’t want to make light of Black Friday-related violence. Personally, I find staying home and working instead of going shopping on Black Friday to be the best way to save money.

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Jewish Journal: Hereville is a “perfect Chanukah gift”!

From the Jewish Journal’s article on “Books that make perfect Chanukah gifts“:

Those looking for a gift for kids who like comics and adventure stories can’t go wrong with “Hereville: How Mirka Met a Meteorite” (Amulet) by author/illustrator Barry Deutsch. This highly anticipated sequel to the 2010 Sydney Taylor Award-winning graphic novel has nothing to do with the holiday of Chanukah, but it would certainly make a fabulous gift. […]

Kids will love the zany plot and the brilliance of the art that proves superior at conveying typical childhood emotions with great empathy. What a treat to have Mirka back! Parents and relatives of 9- to 12-year-olds of any denomination who like comics, reading or action surely won’t go wrong by picking up the first two volumes of this witty and popular new series for middle-grade readers.

Thank you, Lisa Silverman!

Although I always find it a bit odd that Hereville is said to be for “9- to 12-year-olds,” since I’m trying to create an adventure comic book that I’d enjoy were I the reader. Apparently I’m very immature for someone in his forties. (Not exactly news).

You can find information about buying both Hereville books here.

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Single Motherhood And Crime In One Graph

At the Atlantic, sociology prof Philip Cohen provides this graph:

Looking at it from the perspective of 1990, it was easy to assume a strong causal relationship between the rise in single motherhood and the murder epidemic. By my reading of the research, it is true that children of single mothers are more likely to commit crimes. But other factors are more important.

Contrary to Mitt Romney, it seems unlikely that increasing marriage is, in the current situation, the best way to reduce violent crime.

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