What the future holds for Catholic Women…but don't get too excited

Okay, here’s my first post on Alas….

As Cardinals lock themselves within the confines of the Vatican and observers watch the billowing smoke from a chimney to see if the next Pontiff has been selected, members of the Catholic Church wonder what, if anything, will this next pope have in store for its followers. Specifically–the women of the faith. The Church hasn’t exactly been up to speed on women’s social progression to equality and it certainly hasn’t recognized women’s reproductive rights. And the prospect of female priests, bishops, cardinals, and who knows–pope?! Viewing women as more than just wives and mothers or even accepting and respecting a woman’s choice to not become a wife or a mother, and still view her to be a “good Catholic?” A woman’s right to divorce? How about a woman’s right to control her own reproduction and use contraceptives, and even obtain an abortion? Women’s sexual freedom?! Will the Church and the next pope retain their Medieval view of women or as society at large has, become more progressive in regards to women’s social status?

In my opinion–they’ll stay Medieval in their views of women for a long time to come. I foresee more women feeling alienated from the Catholic Church and even abandoning it, and certainly, there will be more women rightfully demanding to have their voices heard. Faithful women flock to Sunday Mass and yet their Church can, and many times over, turn a deaf ear to them. And some women are doubtful of seeing the Church absorb more progressive, even feminist ideals in its view of women any time soon. A recent article from Women’s eNews reported on the concerns of Chilean [Catholic] women who anxiously await the announcement of the next pope and his own gender politics.

As the world waits to hear who is chosen to lead the Catholic Church, women in Chile are divided on whether a new pope is likely to bring any change to the status of women in this deeply conservative and Catholic country.

SANTIAGO, Chile (WOMENSENEWS)–Sister Maria Ines Concha, dean of the faculty of theology at the Catholic University of Chile in Valparaiso, remembers Pope John Paul II as a staunch proponent of women’s rights.

“I think it’s irrelevant who is chosen when it comes to women’s issues,” said Concha, referring to the naming of the next pope, “because no one is going to regress in terms of the progress that has been made. I don’t think you can stall those advances.”

Concha recalled how the pope allowed women to serve at the altar and said that by expanding women’s church participation John Paul may have paved the way for his successor to permit the ordination of female priests.

She recommended the following passage from his 1995 letter to women:

“As far as personal rights are concerned, there is an urgent need to achieve real equality in every area: equal pay for equal work, protection for working mothers, fairness in career advancements, equality of spouses with regard to family rights and the recognition of everything that is part of the rights and duties of citizens in a democratic state. This is a matter of justice but also of necessity.”

But while multitudes of women in Chile look back on the deceased pope with gratitude for his advocacy of women’s rights, others chafe at his opposition to divorce, female ordination, abortion and contraceptives.

Behold, the mixed legacy of John Paul II; good here and there, but over there….not so good. It’s more a schizophrenic legacy, really.

“In all international conferences on women, the Vatican has consistently been against us on issues like divorce, contraception, homosexuality, abortion,” said Loreto Ossandon, a researcher with the Foundation Institute for Women, a Santiago-based think-tank. “So where is their advocacy of women’s rights?”

I doubt there’s any advocacy for women’s rights. The Vatican’s gender politics are pretty cut and dry when it comes to its treatment of women. But that’s just my cynicism of the whole issue.

Ossandon believes that since John Paul chose the majority of the voting cardinals, his successor will likely toe his line.

Which means Catholic women might have to wait another twenty-six years before another opportunity for progression within the Catholic Church’s position on women’s rights. Or they might have to wait another millennia or so. Will there even be women within the Catholic Church if they remain so constant and backward in their view of women, a thousand years from now?

Others said that female priests in themselves would not necessarily mean a shift on issues such as reproductive rights.

“It would likely be a female wearing the same pants and professing the same ideas of the current male-dominated church,” said Veronica Diaz, a coordinator with the Valparaiso-based grassroots organization Catholic Women for the Right to Choose. “It would only make a difference if we had a feminist female priest.”

Given the scarcity of feminist Catholic organizations in Chile, Diaz shrugged off the issue as a non-starter.

And women compromising their reproductive rights in order to receive “scraps from the Vatican’s table” continues.

Divided on Legacy
In Chile–one of the most conservative countries in the most Catholic region of the world–women are divided about John Paul’s legacy on women’s rights.

Divorce was only legalized last year. Abortion in all forms is illegal and prosecuted. Children of separated parents are barred from attending some Catholic schools. Last month, the long hand of the Church was widely suspected as playing a role when a health minister was fired for expressing support for free distribution of the morning-after pill.

And they say Papal interference within national governments went out with Henry VIII’s grandstanding against the Catholic Church.

[…]…”On some issues, like divorce and abortion and that stuff, the church needs to be more tolerant nowadays,” said 20-year-old Fernanda Farcuh, a student at Chile’s Catholic University in Santiago. “It’s a very conservative Church here in Chile and it has very much power over politics. It can stop things that people need. I think we need a more open-minded church.”

Best of luck convincing those Cardinals over in Vatican City.

Farcuh believes young people might stop leaving the church if leadership changes brought new policies on issues such as birth control.

Diaz, with Catholic Women for the Right to Choose, said young people are alienated by a Church removed from their day-to-day reality.

“Asking that women enter marriage as virgins, not have abortions, not get divorced,” are all examples, she said. “And I don’t think any of the papal candidates will change any of those fundamentals.”

Hence why some women are simply fed up with the Church and are leaving, or staying and working for change.

Monica Silva is a researcher at Chile’s Catholic University in Santiago and a member of the National Commission on Women in the Church, an organization created by the Episcopal Conference of Chile to advise on women’s issues.

It’s debatable what can be labeled women’s issues,” said Silva. “Take an issue like abortion. That’s not a women’s issue to me. That comes down to the most basic right of all human beings; the right to life.”

I can’t believe she said that. Well yes actually I can. If women can’t even form a consensus on what are “women’s issues and rights” (or what constitutes women’s reproductive rights) and what we feel the Church needs change, then how the hell can Catholic women, longing for change, convince the Church what are women’s rights, especially reproductive rights?! Personally it doesn’t matter to me what the Church does as I am not Catholic, and not even a believer in a supreme being or souls. However, I do sympathize with the many frustrations that the women of the Church hold. The institution constructed around the faith you follow barely holds you to a second class status, ignores your rights, and simply ignores your voices? Sure you’re noticed every once in a while, but is it merely a condescending novelty act from the Vatican?

Women have struggled and succeeded in gaining access into once male-dominated/controlled institutions and even re-constructing those particular institutions. Progressive Catholic women happen to be struggling with the Roman Catholic Church; a male dominated/controlled institution with very little regard for women’s rights. For this feminist onlooker, it’s just another “women versus patriarchal institution and its teachings” scenario. But it’s actually occuring within the institution. There are women within the institution but they are shut out from positions of authority and ‘say’ on the institution’s teachings. I’m quite certain the struggle and women’s strong disagreements with the Church has nothing to do with the Church core belief in an all powerful deity who sired a son, who would be named Jesus Christ (duh), with a woman named Mary, and later on Christ would nailed to a cross and all that. No, the grievances of progressive Catholic women concern the Church’s stubborn and even arrogant backward position when it comes to women’s “place” within the faith. And even within society as a whole.

In a nutshell, a significant number of Catholic women don’t like their ‘just barely’ second class status within the Vatican’s teachings and views concerning divorce, contraceptives, abortion, sexuality, and “what makes a good Catholic woman.” How will this next pope treat the women of the Church? What will those Cardinals take into consideration when choosing the next pope and will the “woman question” play a roll in that at all? Will some Catholic women be left disappointed yet again by another staunchly anti-feminist pope? Yeah probably. So I’m not getting all giddy over the Conclave as I doubt the Cardinals will elect a progressive pope. I’m betting on an ultra-conservative yet anti-war, anti-excesses-of-capitalism, and pro-humanitarian pope with Medieval views on women’s role (and rights) in the Church and society at large. But once again, I’m just a cynic.

There! My first post. Chatter amongst yourselves.

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Welcome Pseudo-Adrienne!

Here’s a neat announcement: Pseudo-Adrienne, of Pseudo-Adrienne’s Liberal Feminist Bias, is going to be joining “Alas” as the younger, cooler co-blogger. If all goes well, she’ll be blogging here permanently. I’m really excited about this.

Also, we’re planning to rename “Alas, a Blog” to something else, but we haven’t determined what yet. Suggestions are welcome.

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How Feminism Has Changed Judaism

An interesting Forward article discusses “what feminism can teach jewish organizations.” I particularly liked this bit:

A nationwide study released recently by Ma’yan: the Jewish Women’s Project, “Listen to Her Voice,” reveals that feminism has had a transformative effect on the Jewish community over the last 30 years. Respondents to the survey were not only thrilled with the many changes that have occurred … the ordination of women as cantors and rabbis, unprecedented access to learning and sacred texts, women’s leadership on the bimah and in the boardroom … but they also believe that there would have been little to hold their interest in the Jewish community without these changes.

Many of the women reported leading their families to synagogues in which they could be counted as full participants. Others note the sweeping effects that feminism has had on Jewish theology, liturgy and ritual over the last three decades. One would hardly know it from the rhetoric of most of the organized Jewish community, but without feminism, Jewish continuity today would be much more seriously jeopardized than it is. Feminism has given many women and men a reason to again be involved Jewishly.

So that all sounds good. But, on the other hand:

Is that good enough? Can a community that purports to value families and the rearing of children above all else offer no paid parental leave to most of its employees? Is it feasible that Jewish women … who are the most highly educated women in America and who, according to numerous studies, are also singularly dedicated to the Jewish community … are unqualified for positions of leadership in the Jewish community? If feminism has transformed Jewish religious life in just 30 years, might it not have an equally powerful contribution to make to the communal world?

How might we transform this reality? We can begin by simply listening to what Jewish women are saying. Nearly half the women surveyed by Ma’yan reported being discriminated against in the Jewish community on the basis of gender. Forty-two percent have experienced pay inequity. Roughly two-thirds believe that women are underrepresented as communal leaders. Only three in 10 feel that they “often” have a way to make their voices heard about issues of local concern to them.

Read the whole thing.

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Ohio Principal Tries to Cover Up Gang Rape in School Auditorium

From the New York Times (via Michele):

A high school principal in Columbus, Ohio, has been fired and three assistant principals suspended without pay because they failed to notify the police last month about accusations that a 16-year-old special-education student had been sexually assaulted in the school auditorium by a group of boys, one of whom videotaped the incident, school officials said yesterday.

The principal and her assistants not only failed to report the incident but also urged the girl’s father to avoid calling the police out of concerns that reporters would become aware of the assault, according to statements given to school investigators.

The police are investigating four teenagers in connection with the incident, a spokeswoman for the Columbus police, Sherry Mercurio, said yesterday, but no charges have been filed. […]

One of the three assistant principals, Richard Watson, said he had found the videotape and then viewed it with other administrators. Their conclusion, they told investigators, was that there had been no coercion.

From what the NBC story says, it appears that the boys may have been caught because they were showing off by playing the video for friends in math class. While the school administration may not have found any signs of coercion, the police investigators found quite a lot. From the Times:

One witness’s statement said a boy pulled the girl onto the auditorium stage, ordered her to be quiet, pushed her to her knees and forced her to perform oral sex on him.

“If you scream, I’ll have all my boys punch you,” the boy told her and then hit her in the face, causing her mouth to bleed, a student told the investigators.

The girl told a special-education teacher minutes after the incident that she had been forced to have oral sex with two boys behind a curtain on the stage while at least two others watched. She said the boys stopped only after someone arrived in the auditorium and scared them off.

The girl, who has a speech defect, “just kept saying she was scared,” the special-education teacher told the investigators.

Maybe there’s less to this story than it seems; maybe the witnesses are lying, for example. But if the witness statements are accurate, then the boys should be arrested and tried as rapists.

MaxedOutMama , aka MOM, has an interesting post regarding this story. She doesn’t think the boys will ever be punished:

I’m outraged too, but not at all surprised. For one thing, multiple boy on one girl blowjob orgies aren’t that rare any more, even in school. There is a fine line between manipulation, intimidation and outright force. Stories such as these aren’t that rare – developmentally disabled girls are often manipulated and abused in this way in school. So are emotionally vulnerable girls. Once you have kids blowing each other in the school johns in junior high, things get pretty much out of control.

I’ll give you my guess. This boys will not be convicted of any criminal charges. There will not be enough evidence; the testimony (said quietly behind closed doors) will be that the word was that this girl was known for giving blowjobs to boys. Those involved will say they thought she was consenting. Those witnessing it will agree. Not one of all the boys involved said anything to school authorities. Not one. They don’t know the difference between right and wrong, consenting and enforced acts. If they haven’t participated themselves they have all heard about such acts before.

(Link to MOM via My Whim is Law).

MOM is already mistaken about what at least one of the witnesses is saying (if the New York Times‘ account is accurate). I’m also more than a little skeptical about how common “multiple boy on one girl blowjob orgies” are – as far as I can tell, adults have always vastly exaggerated how much sex kids are having. But I worry that she’ll be proved right about the odds of any of these boys being convicted of rape.

MOM goes on to suggest that “instinct” may be responsible for this disgusting act: “Instinct in a young, roving band of teenage boys dictates imposing sexually upon a vulnerable girl…” In MOM’s view, young boys have an instinct towards gang-rape, which they need to be guided away from. I don’t think there’s much evidence to support MOM’s view, however. Have any anthropologists found that hunter-gatherer societies have a high incidence of gang rape, or if they don’t, that they spend a lot of time teaching their boys that gang-rape is wrong?

I don’t think boys have a natural instinct for gang-rape. However, I do think boys have a natural instinct to rely their peer group for validation and for their self-identity (that’s something I think MOM and I agree on). In a culture which teaches boys that masculinity is measured by “getting some,” that if they’re not a man they’re nothing, that having sex is not only normal but an entitlement, and that women don’t have much worth, it’s unsurprising that gang rapes happen. It’s even less surprising that the victim is (it seems) disabled, since the disabled are also not seen as being worth much by our society.

I doubt these boys were acting out of a desire for sexual release. I think they were acting out of a desire to show each other that they’re not scared, that they’re brave, that they’re men. From the point of view of the boys, their victim was just an object, which they used for demonstrating their masculinity to each other.

MOM then makes what seems to me to be a surprising, and out-of-place, digression:

Here’s reality. Girls can be imposed upon sexually, but once they learn the sexual game they can often whipsaw adolescent boys with it. Boys often find one-on-one sex really frightening until they’ve proved to themselves that they can do it, but no such inhibitions exist in a group. Adolescent boys are often just as emotionally vulnerable as girls. Girls have an instinct to use their own powers of sexual attraction. Nature made it so. An attractive, intelligent girl can become a superstar by her junior year in high school if she plays her cards well, especially if she is carefully and selectively sexually active. In the process she may cut an old boyfriend into emotional pieces.

No doubt some girls act just as MOM describes. But what does any of this have to do with a “developmentally disabled” girl who is dragged onto an auditorium stage, hit, and told “if you scream, I’ll have all my boys punch you”? The girl in this case wasn’t using her “powers of sexual attraction” to make herself a “superstar”; she was raped by a bunch of assholes using the power of threats and fists. To use a discussion of a girl being gang-raped as a springboard for discussing how girls are victimizers, too, is bizarre and disturbing.

There’s a lot more to MOM’s post, some of which I agree with, some of which I don’t; take a look.

UPDATE: Due to having nearly 500 responses, this thread is now closed. If you want to continue the discussion, please do so on this new thread.

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Oregon Supreme Court Voids Over 3,000 Lesbian and Gay Marriages

On Thursday, April 14, the Oregon Supreme Court ruled that the nearly 3,000 marriage licenses issued last year to same-sex couples in Multnomah County are void. This isn’t a surprising ruling, since Oregon voters passed Measure 36 last November, which amended the Oregon Constitution to ban same-sex marriage. Still, it’s disappointing.

(There is a slim chance that Measure 36 will end up being overturned on the basis of technicalities.)

There is almost nothing positive in this ruling for same-sex marriage advocates. The only silver lining is that the Court didn’t rule on whether or not the Oregon Constitution requires that lesbians and gays be offered civil unions, leaving the matter open for another civil rights lawsuit.

Meanwhile, as The Oregonian reports, “Gov. Ted Kulongoski and a bipartisan coalition of state senators introduced legislation Wednesday allowing civil unions for same-sex couples and outlawing discrimination against gays and lesbians.” From the Oregonian’s article, it sounds like SB1000 will pass the Senate but be allowed to die in the House.

SB1000 has strong opposition from the Portland-based Defense of Marriage Coalition. “In our mind, it’s bad public policy and it’s unnecessary,” Tim Nashif, a coalition spokesman, said Wednesday.

Nashif argues that little — if any — discrimination occurs against gays and lesbians in Oregon. And he said the anti-discrimination language could put employers and landlords at risk of frivolous lawsuits. […]

The Senate Rules Committee will hold a hearing on SB1000 within a few weeks, Brown said. She and others predicted the proposal would be endorsed by the Senate.

But nobody would handicap the bill’s chances in the House.

Chuck Deister, spokesman for House Speaker Karen Minnis, R-Wood Village, couldn’t say whether SB1000 would get a committee hearing .

I love the way the “Defense of Marriage Coalition” opposes even anti-discrimination laws; what does keeping anti-queer discrimination legal have to do with defending marriage? Sometimes it seems that the marriage-movement types want to have the phrase “defense of marriage” come to be synonymous with hatred of lesbians and gays.

Portland’s One True b!X has more on the Oregon Supreme Court’s ruling.

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Better Dead From Cancer Than Having Sex

From New Scientist:

Deaths from cervical cancer could jump fourfold to a million a year by 2050, mainly in developing countries. This could be prevented by soon-to-be-approved vaccines against the virus that causes most cases of cervical cancer – but there are signs that opposition to the vaccines might lead to many preventable deaths.

The trouble is that the human papilloma virus (HPV) is sexually transmitted. So to prevent infection, girls will have to be vaccinated before they become sexually active, which could be a problem in many countries.

In the US, for instance, religious groups are gearing up to oppose vaccination, despite a survey showing 80 per cent of parents favour vaccinating their daughters. “Abstinence is the best way to prevent HPV,” says Bridget Maher of the Family Research Council, a leading Christian lobby group that has made much of the fact that, because it can spread by skin contact, condoms are not as effective against HPV as they are against other viruses such as HIV.

“Giving the HPV vaccine to young women could be potentially harmful, because they may see it as a licence to engage in premarital sex,” Maher claims, though it is arguable how many young women have even heard of the virus.

Unfortunately, these problems are not unique to the US – which is particularly infuriating outside the first world, where lack of good medical care makes dying of cervical cancer more likely.

India is planning to do its own clinical trials, but will not test the vaccine in young girls. “This is not possible until around the age of marriage in India,” Ganguly says.

Once licensed, the vaccine should be given to younger girls, he says. “But people will say ‘My girl is very virtuous, why vaccinate?’ It will be a real challenge, not like other vaccines.”

Via Tennessee Guerilla Women (which is a really excellent blog, by the way).

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New Study Shows Stores Discriminate Against Fat Women Shoppers

Thanks to Bob Hayes for the tip.

NEW YORK (Reuters Health) – Sales clerks tend to discriminate against shoppers who are obese, according to new study findings.

Investigators found that when women wore a prosthetic suit designed to make them look obese, they were treated more rudely, and received fewer smiles and less eye contact from sales clerks at a Houston, Texas, shopping mall than when they shopped without the fat suit.

Sales clerks — almost three-quarters of whom were women — also tended to end interactions with obese shoppers more quickly, and use a negative tone with them.

Obese shoppers tended to experience more discrimination when they were casually dressed than when they were in professional attire.

However, when the apparently overweight shoppers sipped a diet soda and said they were trying to lose weight, they were treated just as nicely as when they shopped without their artificial bulk.

It seems to me that the last point suggests that’s what’s going on isn’t irresistable disgust, but instead moral disapproval. If the store clerks were simply too overwhelmed with emotion to treat fat women equally, then it wouldn’t make a difference what the fat person says. However, that’s not the case. If a fat woman implicitely agrees to the fat = immorality system by indicating that she is trying to reform her sinful ways (through dieting), then and only then will they be given equal treatment.

The full article has more, including the point that stores are actually losing money due to store employee discrimination.

UPDATE: Interesting discussion related to this study over at Big Fat Blog.

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Andrea Dworkin, 1946-2005

Andrea Dworkin

My favorite thing I’ve read about Dworkin today is this Guardian article by Katharine Viner. Here’s a sample:

Dworkin’s feminism often came into conflict with the more compromising theories of others, such as Naomi Wolf. “I do think liberal feminists bear responsibility for a lot of what’s gone wrong,” she told me in 1997. “To me, what’s so horrible is that they make alliances for the benefit of middle-class women. So it has to do with, say, having a woman in the supreme court. And that’s fine – I’d love a woman, eight women, in the supreme court – but poor women always lose out.” She did concede, however, that her radicalism was too much for some: “I’m not saying that everybody should be thinking about this in the same way. I have a really strong belief that any movement needs both radicals and liberals. You always need women who can walk into the room in the right way, talk in the right tone of voice, who have access to power. But you also need a bottom line.”

It was this bottom line that Dworkin provided. She was a bedrock, the place to start from: even when you disagreed with her, her arguments were infuriating, fascinating, hard to forget. Feminism needs those who won’t compromise, even in their appearance; perhaps I’m alone, but I find it pretty fabulous that, as a friend told me, Dworkin would “go to posh restaurants in Manhattan wearing those bloody dungarees”. She refused to compromise throughout her life, and was fearless in the face of great provocation.

Rad Geek has done a good job collecting links to posts about Dworkin – here and here.

Update: Heart posted a link in comments to the Andrea Dworkin Memorial site.

Update 2: Moderation Announcement from Amp, to everybody here:

I think, for a brief time after Andrea Dworkin’s death, I’d like a break from the usual debates about her. It’s appropriate to speak kindly of those who have recently died – especially when those people are feminists, and the place is a feminist blog.

Can the Dworkin-critics among us (me included) please save your criticisms of Andrea Dworkin for later or for elsewhere?

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My Gay Party Night in San Francisco

Okay, so the “gay party” consisted of Trey and Guy and a few other pairs of same-sex parents, gathered in a nice San Francisco apartment, watching all their 3-year-olds play and trying to hold my own in detailed discussions of potty-training. Followed by pizza and a game of Cranium. (The team I was on had lost the last four “game nights” in a row, but – due, no doubt, to my ability to draw the moon with my eyes closed, not to mention my astonishing Julie Andrews impression – finally chalked up a win).

Many thanks to Trey, Guy and Emma the Occasional Lion for letting me invade their (gorgeous! envy! envy!) house during my brief visit to San Francisco.

I also got to visit Tish, whose disloyal back had backstabbed her (as it were), but who still provided great conversation. (My previous post – about why there’s no female Homer Simpson – was utterly swiped from a conversation I had with Tish).

My favorite thing in Tish’s apartment, apart from Tish, was the photo collection on her fridge. Tish, like me, doesn’t drive. Tish, unlike me, has had the foresight to take a photo of everyone who has given her a ride – and taken by Tish from the passenger seat, while the person was driving. She’s put all the photos in magnetic picture frames; there are enough of them to cover the entire front of the fridge. It’s a really neat, striking display.

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