Category Archives: Gender and the Body

Gendered Messages

I was having a conversation with a friend a few weeks back, and the talk turned to his romantic difficulties. He’s a good guy, but has limited romantic experience, and tends to put women on pedestals and engage in bouts … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism, sexism, etc, Gender and the Body | 70 Comments

Sexy?

It’s a very loaded word ‘sexy’. And I’ve been thinking about it since reading a post on Yes Means Yes, about striptease aerobics (admittedly a topic I know nothing about). Jacinda, who wrote the post, enjoys the classes, they make … Continue reading

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The Poetry Brothel…Satire Or What?

There is a new kind of poetry happening in NYC called The Poetry Brothel. The basic idea is that the poets are prostitutes and the patrons are johns who pay to have poetry read to them in private. There is … Continue reading

Posted in Class, poverty, labor, & related issues, Feminism, sexism, etc, Free speech, censorship, copyright law, etc., Gender and the Body, literature, Sex work, porn, etc | 6 Comments

“Even if you cry, nothing will change.”

Cross-posted from The Mustard Seed. “Any male who wears as woman’s attire in public for immoral purposes shall be guilty of an offense and on conviction be liable to a fine not exceeding one thousand or to imprisonment for a … Continue reading

Posted in Gender and the Body, International issues, Sex work, porn, etc, Transsexual and Transgender related issues | 1 Comment

Pecah Lobang – Muslim Transexual Workers in Malaysia

This is a documentary by my wonderful friend (whom I had the honor of meeting in a mass media and law class which has developed into what will obviously be a life long friendship) Poh Si Teng.

Posted in Gender and the Body, Gender and the Economy, International issues, Sex work, porn, etc, Transsexual and Transgender related issues | 1 Comment

Move Over: Pregnant Woman Coming Through

(Not yet proofread; please bear with me.) For me, one of the most striking things about pregnancy has been how pregnancy affects embodiment. In particular, I’m referring to how societal interactions and structures make affect social psychology and social interaction. … Continue reading

Posted in Disabled Rights & Issues, Gender and the Body | 11 Comments

My Big Announcement…I'm Pregnant With Twins

In case you haven’t noticed, my blogging has been lighter than usual since October. Well the main reason for that has been because I’m pregnant. I told my co-bloggers, so they wouldn’t think I was abandoning the site.. Now that … Continue reading

Posted in Abortion & reproductive rights, Baby & kid blogging, Families structures, divorce, etc, Fat, fat and more fat, Gender and the Body | 38 Comments

My Daughter's Vagina, Part 10

Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7, Part 8, Part 9 Update: I have decided to take the text of this post down until I have a chance to revise and repost it. … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism, sexism, etc, Gender and the Body, Rape, intimate violence, & related issues, Sexism hurts men | 28 Comments

My Daughter's Vagina, Part 9

Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, Part 6, Part 7, Part 8 It’s funny how memory works. When I wrote before that I could not identify at all with Walter’s fantasy about fucking a woman to … Continue reading

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My Daughter's Vagina, Part 8

I have been home, laid up with a severe case of gout, and so I have had the time to work on this more than in the recent past. I have been gratified, really gratified, by the responses. Thank you. … Continue reading

Posted in Families structures, divorce, etc, Feminism, sexism, etc, Gender and the Body, Sexism hurts men | 14 Comments