Category Archives: Rape, intimate violence, & related issues

Fragments of Evolving Manhood: from “Unlearning the Equation”

Trigger warning for descriptions of sexual abuse. Some time ago, an essay I wrote called “Why I Am a Feminist Man” was published at The Scavenger. The essay was a first pass at illuminating the connection in my life between … Continue reading

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From an article in the New York Times on sex trafficking in Spain

The whole article is really disturbing, but this in particular made me have to stop reading and take a deep breath. I don’t want to judge the family without knowing the situation–who knows whether the traffickers gave them little or … Continue reading

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Fragments of Evolving Manhood: The “Cunt Poem” Challenge

Trigger warning for a brief mention of sexual violence. I have not posted a Fragments of Evolving Manhood piece on a long while, mostly because my attention has been focused elsewhere, but I have been working these past couple of … Continue reading

Posted in Gender and the Body, Men and masculinity, Rape, intimate violence, & related issues, Sex, Writing | 3 Comments

On Change and Accountability: A response to Clarisse Thorn

Note for those who don’t read Feministe.  Clarisse Thorn posted an interview with Hugo Schwyzer.  People objected to Hugo Schwyzer being given this space on a feminist blog as he had, among other things, tried to kill his girlfriend a decade ago. Clarisse Thorn responded … Continue reading

Posted in Feminism, sexism, etc, Rape, intimate violence, & related issues | 181 Comments

Abortion, Parenting, and the Government

Last year I read a piece written by a woman who worked in a court system in her state. It was an eye-opener for me, because it laid out in detail how apparently small single requirements could in fact be … Continue reading

Posted in Abortion & reproductive rights, Rape, intimate violence, & related issues, Sex | 56 Comments

Researchers find shared beliefs between rapists and British “lad mags”

Jezebel reports on a British study which showed people quotes from convicted rapists and from men’s magazines, and asked them to tell which were which, as well as which they agreed with. The University of Surrey reports on the study, … Continue reading

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If it’s rape, call it rape

An interesting article by the public editor of the New York Times, Arthur S. Brisbane, in response to complaints he received about how the Times’ handled descriptions of the allegations against Jerry Sandusky. Some readers, responding to The New York … Continue reading

Posted in Language Politics, Rape, intimate violence, & related issues | 4 Comments

Joe Paterno, Jerry Sandusky, Foreskin Man, Vulva Girl and the Two-Thirds of My Freshman Composition Class Who Are Failing Right Now

You know that feeling when there is so much going on, so much you have to do, so many different threads that you need to keep weaving together, or balls in the air that you can’t let drop, or spinning … Continue reading

Posted in Africa, Anti-Semitism, Education, Gender and the Body, Jews and Judaism, Rape, intimate violence, & related issues | 27 Comments

A Penn State Primer

I’m not going to add much to what I’ve written about Penn State so far, at least not until more information comes out (and it most certainly will). But for those who are interested in a detailed timeline of what happened and when, asiangrrlMN … Continue reading

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Be True to Your School

One of the first stories I ever followed on this blog was the University of Colorado rape and sexual abuse scandal. For those who’ve forgotten — there have been a lot of rape and sexual abuse scandals over the years — … Continue reading

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