Welcome Andrea Elspeth!

Here’s some wonderful news from the “Alas” inbox:

Nick asked me to email you to let you know that Andrea Elspeth was born at twenty to 1 yesterday (Wednesday) morning and weighed in at 7lbs 2 oz. They are both healthy and well although Nick is a little tired and battered by the experience.

Enjoy the good news

Whooo-hooo! Maziltov, Nick!

That’s all the info I have at this point. Nick promised me that photos will eventually be posted (possibly not for a couple of weeks, however).

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The IWF College Essay Contest

Remember, there’s just a week and a day left to write your entry to the IWF’s College Essay Contest! (Here’s my previous post about the contest).

Applicants must submit a typed, double-spaced essay of no longer than 750 words that address the following topic:

Please discuss your experience on college campus as an independent woman. How has your college or university helped or hindered your intellectual and personal growth? Please describe what you think it means to be an independent woman in the year 2005.

Writing 750 words is easy, and the first prize is $5000 – and what could be more fulfilling for a young feminist than spending $5000 of anti-feminist money? So if you’re a female undergrad, give it a shot!

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British Poll: Rape and Victim-Blaming

Reader MB sent me a link to this story:

A new ICM opinion poll commissioned by Amnesty International indicates that a third (34%) of people in the UK believe that a woman is partially or totally responsible for being raped if she has behaved in a flirtatious manner.

The poll, ‘Sexual Assault Research’, published today (21 November) as part of Amnesty International’s ‘Stop Violence Against Women’ campaign, shows that similar “blame culture” attitudes exist over clothing, drinking, perceived promiscuity, personal safety and whether a woman has clearly said “no” to the man.

For instance, more than a quarter (26%) of those asked said that they thought a women was partially or totally responsible for being raped if she was wearing sexy or revealing clothing, and more than one in five (22%) held the same view if a woman had had many sexual partners.

Around one in 12 people (8%) believed that a woman was totally responsible for being raped if she’d had many sexual partners.

Similarly, more than a quarter of people (30%) said that a woman was partially or totally responsible for being raped if she was drunk, and more than a third (37%) held the same view if the woman had failed to clearly say “no” to the man.

More.

UPDATE: See also Volsunga’s post.

UPDATE 2: And The F Word.

UPDATE 3: Mind the Gap has a list of links.

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Monday Baby Blogging – Sydney's 2nd Birthday

Above, Sydney plays with her birthday candles (no one remembered to buy the kind you put on cakes, so we just found these in a drawer somewhere). Her expression in this photo gives me the giggles.
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Weekly Standard Endorses Feminist Ideas

Here’s an interesting article, from the right-wing magazine The Weekly Standard, suggesting that the Republican party needs to do more for working-class Republican voters.

Without a youthful population, the costs of supporting retirees are unsustainable, and the innovation and entrepreneurial zeal that make America the world’s economic leader will slowly wither. Yet the decision to raise children continues to be treated as something akin to the decision to buy an expensive automobile–a perfectly fine thing to do, but don’t expect any sympathy or support when you can’t afford a tune-up or an oil change.

I read this going “where have I heard this before?” I mean, this sounded very familiar.

And then I remembered – Nancy Folbre, one of the nation’s leading feminist economists, makes virtually the same argument in The Invisible Heart, except that she calls it “children as pets” rather than “children as expensive automobiles.” Compare the above-quoted paragraph to this paragraph by Folbre:

It is sometimes popular to argue that the decision to raise a child is nothing more than a discretionary form of consumption, like raising a kelpie. Why then, should taxpayers be asked to support it? “You propagate, you pay!” Perfect market-based reasoning. But most pets do not grow up to become taxpayers, workers or citizens. And market goods are subsidised by mothers and fathers who do the non-market work of raising children. Every time you hire a wage earner, or buy a product that was produced by a wage earner, you are benefiting from the altruistic contributions of the parents, other family members, and poorly paid care workers who developed that worker’s capabilities.

Although I’m sure it’s innocent – I doubt the Weekly Standard writers have even heard of Folbre – the similarity is striking, isn’t it? The Standard writers go on to say:

The trouble is that the contemporary workplace demands that women follow the male career track, which assumes a seamless transition from school to full-time employment, and a career path that begins in the early twenties and continues in unbroken ascent until retirement. For many women, this is an appealing model–but many more find themselves losing their best childbearing years to the workplace, and then scrambling to squeeze in a child or two before middle-age arrives.

A better way to approach the division between work and family life might be what sociologist Neil Gilbert calls a “life-course perspective,” with measures that would allow a mother (or father, for that matter) to provide child care full-time for several years before entering, or reentering, the workforce. For instance, the government could offer subsidies to those who provide child care in the home, and pension credits that reflect the economic value of years spent in household labor. Or again, Republicans might consider offering tuition credits for years spent rearing children, which could be exchanged for post-graduate or vocational education. These would be modeled on veterans’ benefits–and that would be entirely appropriate. Both military service and parenthood are crucial to the country’s long-term survival. It’s about time we recognize that fact.

Nothing there that feminist economists like Folbre haven’t been suggesting for years. (The military service analogy is another one Folbre has made, by the way.) If this were standard Republican thinking, there’d be many more Republican feminists.

Frankly, I’d love it if the Republicans would co-op more feminist ideas (Bitch PhD has posted another example – creating structures to enable young single parents to combine raising children with going to college). I’m all about policy, not party – if the Republicans want to put some good feminist ideas into action, then good for them.

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Cartoon: Wal-Mart Morality

My cartoon from the next-to-latest issue of Dollars and Sense… If the art is hard to read, you can view a larger version here.

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Lesser Known Holidays

You should also have big handfuls of the glitter bunched up in your fists and wads of confetti stuffed in your coat as long as it has an elastic waistline to hold it all in. This way, when the bus smacks into you…

Read the rest. Hat tip: True Ancestor.

And when you’re done celebrating that holiday, you can start making plans for next year’s exploding whale day.

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Growth

A good point from Kevin Drum:

If I could have one wish in arguments about the economy, it would be for the default definition of “growth” to be changed. Normally, it’s taken to mean overall GDP growth, and it’s certainly true that steady GDP growth is a good thing. But really, what’s the point of economic growth if all the extra money is going to Donald Trump and the average guy is just treading water? What’s the value of growth like that?

If I had to choose one single thing as the most important determinant of a genuinely strong economy, it would be median wage growth. After all, if median wages are increasing smartly, it’s a sure bet that the economy as a whole is growing too and everyone … including Donald Trump … is doing well. It’s quite possible to have strong GDP growth that still leaves two-thirds of the country stagnant … which is roughly what’s happened for the past 30 years … but it’s almost impossible to have strong median wage growth and not also have a booming economy.

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Study: Abusers Give Flowers More Often

A new study (actually, three linked studies) in the academic journal Personal Relationships found that men who give flowers are also more likely to be abusers. Put another way, men who abuse their wives or girlfriends also have to work harder at convincing their wives or girlfriends to stay.

“The authors also found that acts of vigilance — such as dropping by unexpectedly to see what partners were doing, and calling to make sure a partner was where she said she would be — were the clearest predictors of violence, followed by acts of emotional manipulation.”

From the November 4 issue of Chronicle of Higher Education:

The more often men give flowers to their lovers, or engage in other “mate-retention behaviors” such as vigilance or emotional manipulation, the more often they hit them.

That is the chilling finding of a study by Todd K. Shackelford, an associate professor of psychology at Florida Atlantic University, and five colleagues. They found that the more men do things to dissuade their partners from leaving them, the more likely they are to be violent. “Although many mate-retention behaviors appear to be innocuous romantic gestures (e.g., displaying resources, giving flowers), some may be harbingers of violence,” the authors write.

The researchers surveyed 461 men, 560 women, and 107 couples about their use or experience of mate-retention behaviors and violence toward women. In each group, the researchers found greater violence in men who engaged in more of the retention behaviors.

The authors also found that acts of vigilance — such as dropping by unexpectedly to see what partners were doing, and calling to make sure a partner was where she said she would be — were the clearest predictors of violence, followed by acts of emotional manipulation. Vigilant acts, they note, are examples of “autonomy-limiting behaviors” that are “motivated by male sexual proprietariness and designed to restrict women’s sexual autonomy.” Earlier research, they say, showed that 40 percent of women with highly vigilant partners also reported being seriously assaulted by their partners.

Emotional manipulation included things such as ”He told her he would die if she ever left” and ”He pleaded that he could not live without her.”

Another predictive factor was when a man tried to dominate all of a woman’s time:

Monopolization of Time also was a highly ranked predictor of violence across the three studies. Example acts included in this tactic are ”He spent all his free time with her so that she could not meet anyone else” and ”He would not let her go out without him.”

So, basically, if your boyfriend wants to monopolize your time, constantly checks up on you to know where you are, and says he’ll die without you – then maybe you should run.

UPDATE: From the comments, Bean writes:

As many of you reading this blog know, I work in a DV shelter. So, today I was with a woman and her 2 children, taking them on an errand. While we were out, her youngest son got angry. He started kicking, hitting, biting, scratching and yelling … all directed at his mom. I took him outside and had a talk with him about how it’s ok to be angry, but not ok to hurt people.

Eventually, he calmed down and I asked him if he would apologize to his mom. He said ok, and ran over to the grass and picked some dandelions. He walked over to his mom and said he was sorry and handed her the flowers.

Thinking about this thread, it took all of my will power not to start laughing right then and there.

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Why People Vote

An interesting article in last week’s New York Times Magazine asked, why do people vote? The odds of anyone’s vote changing an election’s outcome are virtually nil (unless one happens to be on the US Supreme Court, that is), so why does anyone bother?

The Swiss recently switched to a vote-by-mail system – and they did it gradually, district by district, enabling social scientists to get a good measure of how such a system changes voting behavior.

Never again would any Swiss voter have to tromp to the polls during a rainstorm; the cost of casting a ballot had been lowered significantly. An economic model would therefore predict voter turnout to increase substantially. Is that what happened?

Not at all. In fact, voter turnout often decreased, especially in smaller cantons and in the smaller communities within cantons. This finding may have serious implications for advocates of Internet voting – which, it has long been argued, would make voting easier and therefore increase turnout. But the Swiss model indicates that the exact opposite might hold true.

The theory the article suggests is that in countries in which there’s a strong belief that voting is a civic obligation, people vote so that other people can see them voting. So a vote-by-mail option, by making it less necessary for people to be seen voting to get social credit for voting, actually reduces the reason for people to vote.

If that theory is correct, then what policy – short of manditory voting, which I think is a good idea that will never happen here (if we can make taxpaying and jury duty manditory duties of citizens, why not voting?) – should we use to encourage voting? Perhaps the “I voted” stickers should be made of nicer material and be more prominent.

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