What a bunch of fuckers.

This is a post about two groups of fuckers.

The first group of fuckers are the parents, students, and school administrators of the Itawamba Agricultural High School. As you may remember, IAHS is where a lesbian high school senior, Constance McMillen, was told that she couldn’t bring a female date to the prom … and when she persisted, the high school actually canceled the prom rather than run the risk of a couple of lesbians being happy for an evening. With the aid of the ACLU she brought suit, and (of course) the judge ruled that the school had violated Constance’s civil rights.

The prom was back on! Yay! Constance was told that the prom would be held at a country club in Fulton, Miss., but when she arrived, she discovered that she’d been sent to a ‘fake prom’ attended by only 5 other students. In a nice bit of homophobia/disabled-phobia crossover, two of those five were learning disabled.

Constance was pretty cool about the whole thing, (as I imagine you would have to be, growing up in a place like that) saying about the disabled kids, “They had the time of their lives. That’s the one good thing that come out of this, [these kids] didn’t have to worry about people making fun of them [at their prom].”

Meanwhile, of course, the rest of the parents and students had their own, ‘secret’ prom at a location outside the county, where they could safely exclude undesirables like gay and disabled people while engaging in pretend-lesbianism for the benefit of any straight boys who might be watching.

Okay, so that’s the first group of fuckers. Cruel, vile, vicious people who decided to deliberately and hurtfully exclude their classmates. I hope they suffer. Specifically I hope they suffer by being stuck in Itawamba county Mississippi for the rest of their miserable, bigoted little lives, while Constance goes on to get the fuck out and have a rich, full life.

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Sadly, though, the second group of fuckers are the commenters over at Firedoglake, who, in a thread about the secret-prom-fakeout decided to Facebook-stalk and identify several seniors at IAHS who posted in defense of the secret prom. Not only identify, but in some cases post oblique threats like,

Congratulations, [begleg10], you have just rendered yourself unemployable in any decent place. Decent places have laws against discrimination history on the basis of sexual orientation. Your public history of homophobic bigotry makes you a discrimination lawsuit waiting to happen.

Other commenters posted bits of their personal information and talked about how they were sending nasty messages to their facebook profiles.

Okay. Look. Guys. I don’t like this any more than you do, but these are teenage girls who commented anonymously. I think it’s incumbent on everyone to respect that privacy. I don’t respect them personally, and I don’t have to. You don’t have to respect them in order to not invade their privacy and harass them online. Jesus. This shit isn’t that hard.

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Three final comments.

1) Of course, the first thing this reminds me of is that this was precisely what bigoted southern parents did when confronted with racially integrated proms. As recently as 1990, 10 counties in Georgia were holding private, segregated proms. Charleston, Mississippi’s first integrated prom was held in 2008, thanks to Morgan Freeman. I just can’t imagine holding on to hate that tightly for so long. Fuckers.

2 ) It’s interesting, isn’t it, that two girls kissing is perfectly acceptable as long as it’s clear that they’re both straight. It’s only is a situation where they might be kissing for their own pleasure that it becomes a problem. Because after all, male sexual titillation is the alpha and omega of meaning. Fuckers.

3) Finally, a continuing trend in discussions of this is folks from the area, or from the south in general, upset about negative stereotypes of the south that are repeated in discussions of this story.  I think there’s something to that, sure … it’s not cool to assume that everyone from Alabama is an ignorant hick … on the other hand, there’s a certain irony in hearing this complaint from people who are defending the secret prom and institutional homophobia. Like, your entire town can’t act like bigoted assholes and then get upset when everyone calls them bigoted assholes. Fuckers.

And a one last comment, courtesy the divine Ms. Nina Simone:

Please do not comment unless you accept the basic dignity, equality, and inherent worth of all people

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Call for Editors and Volunteers – Dinah Press

All!

I know it’s been a long time since I’ve posted anything. I’ve spent the past several months applying to library school (I got in!) and doing other types of writing. The most exciting thing I’ve been working on, however, is below.

Please post the following on your blog or forward it to anyone who may be interested.

Dinah Press, a new small press devoted to publishing the work of marginalized voices, is seeking 1-2 passionate and committed individuals to join its permanent editorial collective. We are also seeking volunteers to donate their time and talent to design, publicity, event coordination, and other needs.

While submissions will be open to all writers, Dinah Press’s main mission is to fill in the gaps in today’s literary landscape by prioritizing fiction, nonfiction, and poetry by people of color, trans people, people with disabilities, members of colonized peoples, and other talented writers whose work has been deemed “unmarketable” by mainstream publishers. Dinah Press will also blur the boundaries between artist and editor by inviting each author it publishes to join the editorial board for one year. All publishing and editorial decisions will be made collectively.

If interested, please send a letter of interest detailing your experience in editing, writing, publishing, activism, or other related endeavors, along with your vision of what you can bring to Dinah Press, to dinahpress at gmail com. Please do not apply if you’re not sure you can commit 1-5 hours a week to the project for at least one year. This will most likely be an unpaid position. For more information, email us or visit dinahpress.com (but be aware that the site is under construction).

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82% of Fake TV Show Contestents are Willing To Commit Torture

The CBC reports on a French documentary, recreating the famous Milgram experiment as reality TV:

The fake game show, called Le jeu de la mort (The Game of Death), features a glamorous hostess and a studio audience who eggs contestants on with cries of “punishment.”

The documentary showed that 82 per cent of participants were willing to pull the levers that inflicted a shock on their opponents. […]

The participants, who did not know the game show was fake, were shown their rivals writhing in pain. They are also told that the voltage of the shocks increased each time they pulled the lever.

Yet in the game-show setting, only 18 per cent of participants refused the request of a host to pull the lever, said filmmaker Christophe Nick.

“They are not equipped to disobey,” he told AFP. “They don’t want to do it, they try to convince the authority figure that they should stop, but they don’t manage to.”[…]

After filming, one of the contestants said that taking part had helped her to understand why her own Jewish grandparents had been tortured by the Nazis.

“Since I was a little girl, I have always asked myself why the Nazis did it and how they could obey such orders? And then there I was, obeying them myself,” she said.

“I was worried about the contestant, but at the same time, I was afraid to spoil the program.”

Glenn Greenwald comments:

I just watched an amazing discussion of this French experiment on Fox News. The Fox anchors — Bill Hemmer and Martha MacCallum — were shocked and outraged that these French people could be induced by the power of television to embrace torture.

Speaking as employees of the corporation that produced the highly influential, torture-glorifying 24, and on the channel that has churned out years worth of pro-torture “news” advocacy, the anchors were particularly astonished that television could play such a powerful role in influencing people’s views and getting them to acquiesce to such heinous acts. Ultimately, they speculated that perhaps it was something unique about the character and psychology of the French that made them so susceptible to external influences and so willing to submit to amoral authority, just like many of them submitted to and even supported the Nazis, they explained. I kept waiting for them to make the connection to America’s torture policies and Fox’s support for it — if only to explain to their own game show participants at home Fox News viewers why that was totally different — but it really seemed the connection just never occurred to them. They just prattled away — shocked, horrified and blissfully un-self-aware — about the evils of torture and mindless submission to authority and the role television plays in all of that.

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This is what war looks like: leaked footage of Iraquis and Reuters employees being massacred

From a US Army press release, July 13, 2007:

Soldiers of 1st Battalion, 8th Cavalry Regiment, and the 2nd Battalion, 16th Infantry Regiment, both operating in eastern Baghdad under the 2nd Infantry Brigade Combat Team, 2nd Infantry Division, along with their Iraqi counterparts from the 1st Battalion, 4th Brigade, 1st Division National Police, were conducting a coordinated raid as part of a planned operation when they were attacked by small arms fire and rocket-propelled grenades. Coalition Forces returned fire and called in attack aviation reinforcement.

Nine insurgents were killed in the ensuing firefight. One insurgent was wounded and two civilians were killed during the firefight.

The two civilians were reported as employees for the Reuters news service.

“There is no question that Coalition Forces were clearly engaged in combat operations against a hostile force,” said Lt. Col Scott Bleichwehl, spokesperson and public affairs officer for MND-B.

Yesterday, a leaked video of the incident was released by Wikileaks (the US has confirmed that the video was authentic). What’s below is footage edited by Wikileaks; a longer, unedited version is available at their site. (Trigger warning: The footage shows 10-15 adults shot to death by US soldiers in helicopters. Two children are also shot, but survived.)

The video shows a group of adults, some of whom may be armed, or maybe not. Two of them are carrying large cameras strapped on, which the American soldiers mistake for weapons. The soldiers shoot all of the adults, creating a huge cloud of dust obscuring all the people on the ground.

After the dust has cleared, all of the adults appear to be dead, except for one who is wounded and attempting to crawl away. A soldier in the helicopter appears eager for a reason to shoot the wounded man (“Come on, buddy. All you gotta do is pick up a weapon.”) After a while, a black van pulls up; unarmed men get out of the van, pick up the wounded man, and carry him towards the van. The soldiers in the helicopters fire on the van, apparently killing all the adults and (we learn later) wounding two children in the van, who are taken for treatment at an Iraqi hospital.

Most of the discussion I’ve read about this video focuses on whether or not the shooting was legal under the Rules of Engagement operating at the time; or discussing the attitude of the soldiers. Unsurprisingly, the US Army investigation found that the soldiers and their command did nothing wrong; and the soldiers’ attitude about killing seems not only unsurprising but probably a necessary defense mechanism for them to be able to do their jobs.

What’s more interesting to me is that the US Army clearly lied about the incident. (You can parse the press release to not be a lie, as the Weekly Standard does, but it’s really a stretch. The plain and obvious interpretation of the press release is that the Iraquis were actively in a mutual fight with US soldiers when they were killed, and that’s obviously not true. Additionally, the press release lies by omission by not mentioning the people killed trying to rescue the wounded man). And then the army covered up the incident, by refusing to release the video.

So how do we know the army lied? Because of the convergence of two unlikely events. First, that two of the people shot were Reuters employees, causing Reuters to press for information about the shooting. And secondly, that an anonymous person (presumably someone in the army) had access to this video, and was courageous and heroic enough to leak it.

It is extremely unlikely that something like this happened just once, and by a massive coincidence that one completely atypical incident just happened to involve two Reuters employees and a video being anonymously leaked. What’s much more plausible is that there are many incidents of this kind, but only rarely do Americans find out about them. It’s entirely possible that incidents like these happen all the time.

One thing we can conclude for certain from this incident is that the US Army is untrustworthy. They can, and will, cover up dubious acts by US soldiers, and for all we know do so routinely. The US Army is not a credible source.

Tragedies like this are inevitable in war, and particularly in an occupation. This is as true in Afghanistan as it is in Iraq:

In a stark assessment of shootings of locals by US troops at checkpoints in Afghanistan, Gen. Stanley McChrystal said in little-noticed comments last month that during his time as commander there, “We’ve shot an amazing number of people and killed a number and, to my knowledge, none has proven to have been a real threat to the force.”

The comments came during a virtual town hall with troops in Afghanistan after one asked McChrystal to comment on the “escalation of force” problem. The general responded that, in the nine months he had been in charge, none of the cases in which “we have engaged in an escalation of force incident and hurt someone has it turned out that the vehicle had a suicide bomb or weapons in it.”

In many cases, he added, families were in the vehicles that were fired on.

Which is why wars should happen only as a last resort. War of choice is a monstrous evil. People who favor the US going to avoidable wars are favoring a situation in which — inevitably — innocent civilians are going to be shot to death by US troops, over and over again. Think about the two children who got shot while witnessing their own fathers being shot to death. That’s the inevitable byproduct of war.

It’s notable that, although in the US the major news outlets typically report whatever the US military claims as if it were fact, that’s not true in other countries. Discussing a different cover-up by US troops of the killing of innocent civilians (this time in Afghanistan), Glenn Greenwald writes:

Put another way, anyone reading about what happened from American news outlets would be completely misled and propagandized, while anyone reading the Pajhowk Afghan News would have been informed, because they treated official U.S. claims with skepticism rather than uncritical reverence.

One reason that the US looks so different “on the ground” throughout the middle east than it does here is that we’re reading and watching different news sources. And sometimes, the news that we Americans are watching is lying to us, in a way which makes our forces seem less harmful, and those objecting to US forces seem less justified.

They hate us, in part, because we slaughter them from helicopters. That’s not unreasonable of them.

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Salvation Army attacks sex-positive activist through its human trafficking email list

Sometimes people try to tell me that no one has a problem with S&M; that all stigma against S&M is in our heads and that if we BDSMers would just get over our victim complex, we’d discover that society has no real problem with us. I’ve got tons of counterexamples, but today I’m only going to talk about one: my friend maymay, a sex-positive activist and kinkster who has now been painted as a child molester, starting with an attack from the Salvation Army (specifically, two women named Margaret Brooks and Donna M. Hughes).

I admire maymay; he’s done some incredible sex-positive activism. He created the sex-positive unconference model KinkForAll, which swiftly went viral, and co-created Kink On Tap, a smart sexuality netcast with tons of audience participation. Maymay is also out of the closet under his real name, which is an incredibly ballsy and badass move on his part, but one that puts him in all the more danger when absurd and libelous personal attacks like these are launched.

What I find most notable about the Salvation Army attack is that — although maymay’s events and activism focus on general sex-positivity more than BDSM in particular — it’s BDSM that got up their noses. When the Salvation Army’s Initiative Against Sexual Trafficking jumped on maymay, they implied that the “The specific goal of the event [KinkForAll] was to foster an acceptance of bondage, discipline and sadomasochism.” Well, I attended and presented at the first KinkForAll in New York City, and while a lot of BDSM information was shared, the specific goal of the event was definitely to be generally sex-positive.

So why is BDSM the centerpiece of Salvation Army’s little freakout? One might say that it’s because maymay identifies as a submissive, and frequently blogs about BDSM; or perhaps it’s because KinkForAll attracted a large BDSM community contingent, probably because we’re very accustomed to talking and trading information about sex in a KinkForAll-compatible style. BDSM thus becomes the lightning rod. But it couldn’t function as such if BDSM weren’t seen as deviant, sick, unacceptable, and disgusting. If society really had no problem with BDSM, then why would the Salvation Army be sending messages to a sex trafficking listhost attacking a BDSM-associated event?

(Tangentially, it’s worth noting that talking about sex trafficking — which is a genuine and serious problem in many places — has been used throughout history as a tactic to attack, shut down, criminalize or control various forms of consensual sexuality. If you’d like to learn more about this, I strongly recommend the brilliant blog Border Thinking on Migration, Trafficking and Commercial Sex by Laura Agustín. Start with “What’s Wrong With the Trafficking Crusade“. If you don’t mind academic writing, Agustín’s paper on the history of sex worker “rescue” initiatives is also particularly good.)

The other thing that really gets me about maymay’s attackers — in his post, he engages one one blogger in particular — is the assertion that sex-positive activism leads to “doing whatever” with no regard to the emotional consequences. In her argument with maymay, the blogger states that:

all the things I’d been told about sex – again, on whatever end of the spectrum – had quite clearly missed the point. “Don’t do it” with not explanation leads to rebellion or shaming. “Do whatever” leads to heartbreak. That has been my experience.

I think that we are sexual beings, yes. This means that our sexuality is part of everything – body, mind, heart, soul. I don’t think we can separate, hard as we might try, the one from the other.

Wow, hey, that sounds just like what I’ve been saying for years! In fact, it almost exactly mirrors some things I said in my landmark post Liberal, Sex-Positive Sex Education: What’s Missing. I wrote:

I think that there are lots of people out there who feel as though the sexual liberation movement “failed” or “betrayed them”, because they convinced themselves that sex is value-neutral and then got hurt. … We need to start talking about sex as something that is not mostly mechanical — as something that, yes, can be “a private sphere for the creation of human meaning”.

So what’s with this assumption that sex-positive activists have no clue about social issues of sexuality, or matters of the heart? Working to destigmatize sexuality is in no way incompatible with working towards better, more consensual, more meaningful relationships; in fact, I’ll be bound that sex-positive activists do a much better job of this than these “anti-trafficking” folks do. As maymay wrote in a recent email:

Protecting people of every gender and age from falling victim to sexual abuse requires that each person — including every man, woman, and child on Earth — has the right and freedom to learn about sexuality in a non-judgmental environment.

Predictably, Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks are refusing to engage maymay directly. (That’s a typical sex-negative tactic; as I recall, the makers of the appallingly biased anti-porn documentary “The Price of Pleasure” have refused to publicly engage with actual porn actresses as well. Funny how most sex-negative arguments collapse when faced with those of us who freely and consensually choose to do Whatever It Is That We Do.) That leaves the sex-positive community to back up maymay on our blogs, podcasts, and Twitter accounts; and from what I’ve been seeing, we’re doing a good job. We can’t erase Hughes’ and Brooks’ harmful accusations, but we can damn well expose them for the absurdities they are.

Cross-posted at Clarisse Thorn

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Mandolin and Nojojojo Nominated For Hugo Awards!!!!

No, no, this isn’t a rerun post. Back in February, I posted that Mandolin (under her meatworld name Rachel Swirsky) and Nojojojo (under her meatworld name N.K. Jemisin) each wrote stories that were nominated for Nebulas.

Now I’m very excited to say they’ve each been nominated for a Hugo award, as well. (Hugos are the other major award for writers of fantasy and science fiction.)

So huge congratulations to Nojojojo for her short story “Non-Zero Probabilities,” which has been nominated for both a Hugo and a Nebula this year.

And equally huge congratulations to Mandolin for her novelette “Eros, Philia, Agape,” which has been nominated for a Hugo. (Her Nebula nomination was for a different novelette, “A Memory of Wind.”)

You both rock!

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Open Thread: Last Precious Ounce edition

Please post what you want in comments. Self-links are asked to come right in and sit down in the comfy chair next to the fireplace.

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I haven’t yet read the book, but I love this quote:

Waking up from the dream is the worst part. It always takes a few seconds. It’s like… suppose you were underwater and naked and running out of air, deep down where all the light’s gone, and you have to come up for air. And you spend every last precious ounce of your life’s energy in the effort to rise to the surface and take that badly needed breath, and just as your head breaks from the water you remember, too late, to your horror, that you are a fish.

–Dexter Palmer, The Dream of Perpetual Motion

I also adore without reservation the cover design.

  1. Speaking of book cover design, the “Randomize” (or, perhaps, “Ronandimze” or “Rnoizadme”) function of the book cover archive is a very effective time-waster, if you’re in the market for such a thing.
  2. Gigposters is another good time-waster for me.
  3. Intersections in undocumented immigrant and LGBT communities
  4. Cowen, Yglesias, Wilkinson, Douthat, Continetti, Caplan, Kling — who will win the Top Ten Influential Books Game?
  5. An informal survey of race and gender representation on children’s book covers.
  6. I enjoyed this Colbert Report interview with dissident conservative David Frum.
  7. Was the health care reform bill the best-covered news story, ever?
  8. Kathleen Parker thinks that southern white men who own 1,500 acre estates are “ordinary Americans.”
  9. It completely sucks that being polite to cops isn’t just ordinary courtesy, it’s mandatory and on occasion enforceable by electric shock torture.
  10. Political affiliation and TV Watching. The graphs here are just fascinating. I had no idea that pro basketball was watched so disproportionately by Democrats, for example. (I can’t help but wonder if race is involved — although there are plenty of non-white athletes in football, aren’t there?) And the most Republican sport isn’t Nascar, but golf.
  11. What gets left out of Western discussions of Afghan and Pakistani women.
  12. Speaking of graphs, this post on partisan differences by age groups at OKCupid is interesting, although I think some of their leaps are dubious. (Especially dubious, as they admit in the post, is talking about age differences as if they represent the life cycle of a single person.) Nice graphs, though.
  13. More discussion of those polls of the zany things Tea Partiers believe.
  14. Trans teen kicked out of high school after single day. What the fuck is wrong with school administrators there?
  15. HYDRA in Plain Sight. So what happens to those chopped-off hydra heads?
  16. Sexism in coverage of female and male suicide bombers.
  17. How a citizen’s letter makes it through a zillion levels of bureaucracy to be read by the President. Likely to be enjoyed by those who like Obama, sneered at by those who don’t.
  18. In the face of racism, distress depends on one’s coping method
  19. How race hurt Obama in the Democratic primaries.
  20. Obama’s Moderate Health Care Plan
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A cartoon inspired by the ipad

As usual, click to see it bigger.

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6th Annual Stumptown Comics Fest Art Show

I’ll be at the 6th Annual Stumptown Comics Fest Art Show tonight. The exhibit is at the Portland Center for the Performing Arts (1111 SW Broadway). I’ll have two pages from the upcoming “Hereville” graphic novel on display.

If you’re in downtown Portland tonight, drop in and say hi. :-)

This is an art exhibit associated with the Stumptown Comics Fest. The Fest itself, a two-day comic book convention, takes place in a few weeks, April 24th and 25th. I’ll be there, too; for more info about the Stumptown Comics Fest, visit their site.

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Walton reviews Harlan Ellison's Last Dangerous Visions

Jo Walton writes an intelligent, thought-provoking review of THE LAST DANGEROUS VISIONS, edited by Harlan Ellison in 1982. “On reflection, not very dangerous,” she concludes. “…it wasn’t visionary and they certainly hadn’t seen the future. But we don’t condemn science fiction for not being prediction—and it’s just as well.”

She discusses each of the volumes stories in detail, from Ian Watson’s “Universe on the Turn” to Jerry Pournelle’s “Free Enterprise.”

The best thing here is Ian Watson’s “Universe on the Turn”, a darkly funny satire of a future Britain that has become a surveillance state where everyone is obsessed with watching a “reality” TV show about ordinary inane people trapped in a house together. Calling the show “Big Brother” is perhaps a little unsubtle, but the parallels between the claustrophobia of the show and the highly surveilled everyday lives is done with a light touch that recalls the author’s “The Very Slow Time Machine” and Whores of Babylon…

Jerry Pournelle is here with a story called “Free Enterprise” in which NASA pretty much abandons space to robots, the shuttle fleet is allowed to decay, and prizes are offered for the first private companies to meet various space goals. This has the usual Pournelle style and flair, but this is a very familiar subject for him—not dangerous, not visionary, not to mention so very much not what happened. I like him better in more upbeat romantic works like Exile and Glory.

On a day when SFWA has returned to the previous incarnation of its website because “the earlier website embodies tradition and also provides an important hurdle for new members. If they can’t figure out how to navigate it, we don’t want them,” a development that’s occurred at the same time as the announcement that Alan Smithee will be taking over as SFWA vice-president–it’s nice to read a smart review about the glory days of science fiction, even if those days weren’t so visionary after all.

Go to Tor to read Walton’s review or to Wikipedia for a different perspective on today’s events in science fiction.

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